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I bought my first pair of extreme heels without platforms last November. They were a silver pair of 6ihf SP16's & are amazing. I felt excited & turned on when putting them on for the first time,but struggled to stand let alone walk in them as I had only worn 4" heels previously. I have since purchased a pair of 5" black patent pumps by Shuh (UK High St chain) which have helped me to make the transition! confused45

I ended up telling my whole family a few months ago and all were ok with it. I even went out for coffee with my mum and sister while wearing my boots over skinny jeans and still no problems. Hell my mum even commented on how good I looked. The only one that it does seem to bother is my partner, which is a bit sad.

I could never tell my family or my friends,I would be disowned straightaway & yet I would love to share my passion with someone.

Thanks goodness for this site!

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aussieheels1 I have 14 pairs of heels right now,including boots,pumps & sandals,but no wedges.I cant stand wedges,they are so unflattering! Don't think you are alone in throwing heels away because you thought you were doing something wrong.I have had 2 or 3 purges over the years & some, including 1 pair of boots & 1 pair of sandals,I would die to have back! Couldn't decide.Was I gay,in the wrong gender,or just plain weird,so felt terrible guilt.Guess this explains my username! Since I found this site,I haven't looked back! Happy Heeling confused45

Pernilla There was no mention of import tax on the invoice & shipping was free,so I guess the cost is 150 Canadian Dollars,although I haven't seen my bank statement yet! They look & feel amazing but as I have only worn maximum 5" before I'm struggling a bit to walk although getting used to standing. confused45

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Found standing easier today & managed to walk from the kitchen to the living room(only about 10 steps!) without holding on to something,so a bit of progress

already.

I'm a non techy so,sorry,can't show pictures just yet but if you type 6ihf into

Google & scroll to the bottom of the home page you will see pata modelling

a pair beautifully.The design number is SP16.

Hope this helps?

Bubba136

This is my first experience with 6ihf & the fit is perfect but have seen other posters comment on the difficulties with them,so I guess I've just been lucky!

However,there is an excellent sizing chart on the website which even allows for the measuring of your foot size.By measuring my feet I was able to confirm the right size for me(UK8/US Womens10)

Hope this helps too?

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My pair of metallic silver 16cm heels by 6ihf arrived this morning.I'm so excited! I had trouble standing let alone walking but the fit is good so no problem there. Guess I have some hard training ahead but so looking forward to it! Thank you so much pata for introducing me to 6ihf. I have even greater admiration for you now as you make walking in them so effortless. Many thanks confused45

I think you are right Bubba136. Whatever the feelings or emotions that are provoked by wearing heels, I still have a fetish about high heeled shoes.I think this is intensifying by being on this site & the confidence this brings to enjoy my heels more.That makes me feel great! Also,ilovetights,I too have become aroused by trying on/buying heels in the past but like you,sex is not the only reason I enjoy them. Since joining this site(two weeks ago),I have been able to enjoy my heels without becoming aroused & this has been a revelation. Hope you continue to enjoy your heels. confused45 PS admire your courage to go outside.I'm desperate to do this but have not had the balls yet!

For the femanine feel definitely! I feel a million dollars in my heels! confused45

Hi morpho Your description of why I like to wear heels is perfect! I could not have put it better myself. However,at the risk of blurring the subject,are there gender issues at work here?When I am wearing my heels,I feel very femanine & so wish I had been a girl.I have small hands & feet(UK size ,& not too muscly legs so perhaps it was supposed to be. Anyway,perhaps it is more than just a"fetish" or interest or obsession,& other forces are at work? confused45

Thanks for your help & support guys! Wearing my heels whilst typing this reply! BTW bubba136,thanks for posting the story of the student in the States who was eventually allowed to go to the prom in his heels & a dress.I hope the boundaries will continue to be pushed back. I know this story was from some months ago but as i'm new here I have only just caught up. confused45

Hi Everyone Off sick from work right now so taking the opportunity to try & wear my heels regularly around the house. In the past I have worn them for a few minutes just for the"thrill",but really want to get used to wearing them for longer & therefore enjoy them for longer. I have worn heels for about 20 yrs but still feel that I am doing something that I shouldn't.As a result,I get very excited when I get my heels out & put them on & my heart rate goes through the roof.As I have a heart condition I'm not sure this is a good thing! Should I persevere in the hope that wearing my heels will feel more "normal", & will things get easier?After all I just want to relax & enjoy my heels! confused45

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Hi labellefemme I have found my first few days here utterly inspiring & the forum highly addictive!

Thanks for your warm welcome guys!

Thanks so much for your welcome hh4evr1. So very much admire your courage to go out in public in heels. Would love to walk out down the street in a lovely pair of heels & black nylons but would be ridiculed & villified!The place where I live is so conservative. Anyway,perhaps I'll summon the courage one day. Thanks for getting in touch confused45

My first contact with the site was in a reply to another post,but now I know how to create a new thread I thought I'd say Hello properly. I have been fascinated by high heels since I was about twelve(now 45)so it is very exciting to find so many like-minded people out there. Until the other day I thought I was gay or in the wrong gender or something! I have thrown away many pairs of heels in denial over the years but have always restarted my collection so I guess I'm hooked? I have never been a member of a forum before,so forgive my mistakes & I have little or no tech knowledge so pictures/avatar will have to come later. It's great to have found you all & I look forward to visiting the forum often. confused45

Hi Pata Truly amazing,both you & the shoes! Want to put a pair on right now & srut around for the rest of the day(& night)! Thanks so much for posting this material;so sexy! confused45

Thanks for your welcome Bubba136. I'm hooked to the forum already!

Hello Everyone Stumbled upon this site whilst searching for shoe retailer web sites. I was amazed,surprised & relieved that there are so many like-minded people out there! I have been fascinated by high heels since the age of about 12 & wore my Mum's shoes & tights or stockings at every opportunity!Since I left home(16 yrs ago) I have built up quite a collection of my own. Since I have never had a girlfriend(although I'm attracted to girls not boys),I assumed this meant I was gay or in the wrong gender.Since reading some posts the other day, it seems this is not necessarily the case & I just have a different interest! As has been mentioned,once you have worn a pair of heels you never look back & despite throwing loads of shoes away in denial I have restarted my collection more than once.By the way heels less than 4" are not worth wearing in my opinion! As I've said,I still find girls attractive but the first thing I do when I see a pretty one is look to see what they have on their feet! Anyway,sorry for the ramble but it's really good togetthings off my chest for he first time. I have never been a member of a forum before & have little computer knowledge so forgive me if I make mistakes,but it is great to have found you all & I look forward to visiting the forum often. confused45