40knockin Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Hello everyone. I came across this site about a week ago. I glad I did. I reside in NY State. I've always liked the way heels look. I'm a boot lover for the most part, but I do like all type of shoes as well. All of the boots and shoes my wife has, I bought for her(for me) and she will wear them for me in the bedroom, but she doesn't wear them other than that. What she doesnt know is I like to wear them as well, although not a perfict fit. I like the way they feel and look. As I said, I'm glad I found this site. I think I'm going to like it here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vector Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Hey, another New Yorker! Welcome to the board. I hope you enjoy it here!! Re: shoes, what many here say (not me as I'm not married) is that the wife or significant other will eventually get suspicious. Whether it is instinct or the shoes not being exactly where she left them or the looser fitting. As you haven't told her, you might want to start investing in your own footwear. At least until you tell her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassy heels Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Welcome 40knockin!! I to am new, and just recently spilled my sercet (all of it) to my wife. She already kinda knew, but not how much. After reading a ton of threads here, I was able to open myslef up fully to her, and she is very ok with it. She keeps telling me "Its more common than you think". I am sure in time she will know, either by the same my wife did, or you just cant bear to keep it in any more:w00t2:. I am sure you will make the right choice, no matter which it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Welcome and how cool can that be! real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t-strap lover Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Welcome to HHP. Maybe she will come around to your desire for heels someday soon. t-straps are my favorite style. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Welcome, 40knocking. Good advice from sassy heels. You can't successfully hide anything from your wife. She "knows all.":thumbsup: Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highestheels Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Welcome to HHPlace. Hope you enjoy being here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
40knockin Posted August 14, 2008 Author Share Posted August 14, 2008 Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
40knockin Posted August 14, 2008 Author Share Posted August 14, 2008 I apreciate your comments. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bootluvr Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Welcome to THE FINEST BAND IN THE LAND there 40K and All The Best when you do deside to tell her. Cool that she'll Bedroom (and maybe around House if just you 2) wear them all the time for Fun and (s)Excitement. Boots Rock!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Welcome to HHPlace! I am glad you found the site as well. This is a wonderful resource. Please don't be afraid to share. Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mtnsofheels Posted August 23, 2008 Share Posted August 23, 2008 Greetings 40knockin! This place is an excellent find, and as words placed before state, she will find out and already knows, she now has has the chance to know her best friend you much more and you get to share with her an awesome interest so dear to you. I did that with my GF and it has taken a load off my mind as well, (namly fear of rejection) and allowed me to be who I really am. It just takes some time and the right moment. But so far you have found the first step-here. Welcome Mtns of heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 Welcome to HHP. You will find some very friendly people here who share your interest in high heels. Hope to hear more from you and welcome again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 Hi and welcome here. It is best to let her know now and it sounds like you have made the first step in doing so. Keep us all posted on your progress. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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