mndnspmp Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Johnie, Good question. I haven't answered yet because it seems complicated to me. I was a 99% closeted CD until I discovered hhplace. I've only touched make-up once and made a heck of a mess of myself. The clothes were my concentration not the total look. But, through this forum, I have discovered that I can sometimes publicly indulge in my women's shoe hobby with out trying to dress like or even mimic a woman. It's now easier, more portable, and more convenient. Unfortunately, clothes are still important, since I now feel i am one of many "ambasadors" for our "hobby" and have the acute eye of others such as Kneehighs to live up to. So, it is turning out that I am paying special attention to my overall look when heeling to present a pleasing image. The result is usually more asthetically pleasing if I don't just throw on some pumps with my normal men's attire. I am now more concerned with pants or jeans length and cut and how my shirt goes with the pants and shoes. It used to be, "I'm in 'drab' so who cares what I look like". No more though when streetheeling. On a side note, I wondered if this poll was fem or masc shoes or look. Since it's look, my answer is above - a resounding both, or moreso masculine any more. If it was pertaining to my taste in women's shoes, I'd say feminine. I find myself more attracted to what I'd consider feminine styles, although I leave sandals for the ladies and some of these guys with nice feet! Pumps 'n' denim (mndnspmp) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abburke Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 I picked more fem, just because I do like incorporating a little makeup, nail polish and someday a kilt or skirt which is all considered feminine. I actually think a man can be masculine and wear a kilt or skirt as well as some makeup without being feminine. I care nothing any longer of trying to dress as a female or try to pass as one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henri Posted July 22, 2008 Share Posted July 22, 2008 I agree. Why can"t I be a man in heels and a skirt. I don't want to be feminine. I just want to be a man in a skirt and heels. Also nylons make the legs look better. Henri If you haven't learned something new today; you have wasted the day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted July 27, 2008 Author Share Posted July 27, 2008 I must admit, if it were totaly excepted, there are a lot of cute skirts and heels I would wear out every day. But for the most part, I just want to be a man in reg jeans, shirt and heels. real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aussieheels1 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 just like a few of you here... if the acceptance is there, I would definitely be out and about in cute skirts/dresses and nice heels..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Jesus wore sandals and a dress. I say go for it. Ben Truly inspired! It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billyb Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 I too just stick to pants and heels I do try to make the look coordinated, but I never have tried a skirt though I would like to but for now it is just the heels. One step at a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billyb Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 I too wear only pants and heels and have never tried wearing a skirt, someday maybe but for now just heels. One step at a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted July 30, 2008 Author Share Posted July 30, 2008 Jesus wore sandals and a dress. I say go for it. I would have thought that as long as your not interested in passing off as a woman and are sexually straight, then no monotheistic religion in the world would have any cause to complain. Regards, Ben Ya and look what Jusus had to deal with. He was the most hated man on earth to many. I'm sure that wasn't why though. Point is, I don't think I'll have to go through anything like He did for what I believe in so wear your heels, skirts or what ever proudly. They can't hurt you! real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kutenkinky Posted October 27, 2008 Share Posted October 27, 2008 I enjoy wearing heels, stockings, a dress or skirt, blouse. I enjoy "getting in touch" with my feminine side. M_/|_/| NYC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Of late, I've been experimenting with skirts which I've successfully worn in public, though not with heels, at least not yet. Now, does that mean I'm attempting to be feminine? Not really, I simply want to be a man in a skirt and (soon) heels. That's all. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jojo Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 ...I simply want to be a man in a skirt and (soon) heels. That's all. Jeff, going by the poll results I think you speak for most here (certainly me). Whilst I occasionally wear skirts, high heels, and (regularly) nail polish (toes and fingers), I have no desire to appear feminine. Just a guy who doesn't always follow the herd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shortskip Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 I think I'm a crazy guy. I don't want to be a woman, a CD or whatever the other people mean..and my head and shoulder can't look like a womans. Wearing a grey beard and a miniskirt with hose and highheeled boots - I'm shure- that's a picture that other people will be laughing. So I love this outfit and I feel comfortable and fine with that things on me. I've waited too long years to wear this stuff. Now I'm 50 years old and I do what I want! My experience is- wearing a beard or styling or not styling- most of the women will not take much notice of me. Also I don't use a wig (or should I)? I loosed my hair when I was a younger man. Definitely I'm masculine and wearing some clothes CAN'T change this!!! Have a nice day and sorry about my bad english Skortskip Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Shortskip:-) We here don't think that you are crazy. You appear to be a guy who has lived half his life one way and intends to live the rest in another way. So what? That's your choice. enjoy! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mtnsofheels Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 I would love to be more feminine, and the best is having both options available all the time to suite my mood and interest as it unfolds. I guess that is just what most woman have nowadays and what I would like to acheive that. As of present, pants and hose whenever I can and nail done most of the time and have been en femme in the past, time is coming for more of that though... "News Years Resolution" maybe is a good start. Mtnsofheels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 I'm comfortable in panties, pantyhose, and heels. The rest of me looks is male. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondtake20 Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 I'm comfortable in panties, pantyhose, and heels. The rest of me looks is male. Cheers--- Dawn HH Same here! The only time I have even tried to look fem is going to a costume party. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mackman69 Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 i really enjoy wearing womens jeans with heels and love wearing high heeled boots , i wear stockings and other kinds of lingerie under my man clothes . i have got a few female shirts and id like to try wearing a skirt out in public . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thighhighs Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 Man in heels for me. I like the style if boots with a nice looking heels, don't care if it's 0.5" or 5", as long as it's a nice style which I like and think looks good on me. My favourite boots: Bronx Scarlet Hi, as in my avatar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
my6heels Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Hi guys, I just joined the forum weeks ago and I would like to share with all you my video in You Tube. I prefer to look masculine but with a little touches of feminity like heels (of course!!!), sun glasses, bags or female leather gloves. I started one month ago to go out on heels for working (I remove shoes just before i arrive to the office) or shopping. The feeling to walk on high heels in public is everyday more intense and I feel more confortable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondtake20 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 My6heels Nice video. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SBN Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 I don't want to just be a man in heels. I love the feeling of stockings and when I get the right clothes, I'm going to privately crossdress. If I find the right group of accepting people, I might even go as far as being a TV someday... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 There's all kinds of groups out there, SBN. I'm sure Dr. Shoe, or one of our other members, can help you find one that fits your requirements. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aussieheels1 Posted November 15, 2008 Share Posted November 15, 2008 i would love to dress in any combination of male and female clothing...... it would be fantastic to be able to wear a skirt or dress when I want to with or without heels.... so I guess I would sit in the feminine category... but really, I think it's all about having the fashion choice to wear it.... at the same time, i know that such fashio freedom is probably not going to be widely accepted in my lifetime, so I'm happy to be wearing heels as male as I can see there is more of a chance of this being accepted.... pardon the pun but..... one step at a time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tightlevisandhhboots Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 I prefer Masculine, though all my jeans are womens, and most of my underthings. Just would not pass at 6'5" w/o heels... BUt I do love the finer things too, just not wanting to jump over. Tightlevisandhhboots Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 My6Heels:-) Very nice video from you. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeshoething Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 I prefer to wear mens clothes with my heels. By that, I mean I wear my clothes. I currently do not own any skirts/blousses/dresses, but that doesn't mean I never did. I used to go out in full including make-up, nails, wig, the whole nine, but did that to avoid looking like a man in heels. Now, I am older, so with the 5 o'clock shadow, there will be no more outside CDing. I still do wear hose (I love the tight smooth feeling) for the fit of my heels and with sneakers. But they are my hose, not women's hose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morpho Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I answered more feminine, just becasue i like the dresses and skirts, as well as all the accesories, but not trying to be a woman, just as many said exploring the fun of doing that too, but my passion is shoes and hose, thats it, V. Morpho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magic Heels Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 As a politician might say, it depends what you mean by feminine. Do you mean the boots/shoes or the person? I think high stilettoes and peeptoes are feminine but cowboy boots are masculine. Personally I wear high knee boots with a skirt because they look better that way. I am slim so i can wear a snugly belted skirt and long boots, so I am feminine from the belt downwards but have no desire for ear rings or a wig so I am masculine from the waist upwards! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kikepa Posted January 8, 2009 Share Posted January 8, 2009 It's not a guy/girl thing. It's a what I like wearing thing. Those who really care about us don't make a fuss about what we wear. Those who make a fuss about what we wear really don't care about us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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