highheeltrained Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 What do you think is the ok age for girls (and boys to i guess) to let them wear high heels and boots with heels as tall as 5 inches or even 6 inches? And what about thigh high boots? I think 14 or 15 is ok. Maybe even 13. As long as they don't dress slutty but conservative with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris100575 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Physically, as long as the feet have stopped growing they should be fine. However considering the strong fetish association with very high heels, I would definitely be thinking age of consent plus. Chris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedesigner Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 What do you think is the ok age for girls (and boys to i guess) to let them wear high heels and boots with heels as tall as 5 inches or even 6 inches? And what about thigh high boots? I think 14 or 15 is ok. Maybe even 13. As long as they don't dress slutty but conservative with them. I think heels of 4" are enough till 15, otherwise she may end up being classed as a slapper... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pussyinboots Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 I started wearing stiletto heels at the age of 15 - mainly for parties. Chunky heels at School. Daytime wearing of thin heels began at College - 16+. I think that for young girls - any earlier is dangerous - and an invitation for trouble. "Good Girls keep diaries....Bad Girls just don't have the time...!:icon_twisted:" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plasmaboy Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 These were my daughter cowboy boots. They are a UK13 and she wore them weekends mostly. She also had these but they were a bit cheapo and she said they hurt her feet. My sister bought these for her. She wore them to school for a while under trousers. However she then grew out of them. Surprised she wasn't caught though!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormie Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 Considering the fetish association I agree that the age of consent should be involved, but that's more a moral issue - just because you are prancing (or hobbling?) about in 7-inch ballet boots doesn't mean you want to jump into bed with anything that moves. I'd say about 16, possibly slightly older for boys. Certainly no younger than 15. That's from a practical standpoint; you don't stop growing until you're in your early 20s, but bone growth slows around the age of 16 (I had a to have a pretty severe brace during my teens and my orthodontist refused to fit me with it until I was over 16 on the basis that my jaw bones should have stopped growing by then. Then he cracked one of them in half. Nice man). If you wear big heels once I don't think it would do much damage, but if you're a fetishist and wearing them all the time it's gonna mess your bones and muscles up pretty badly if they haven't even finished developing yet. If you are too open-minded your brains will fall out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Shoe Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 I agree. I'd say that shoes with heels aimed at girls younger than 14 is wrong but the problem is is that there are women with small feet so heels in sizes suitable for younger girls are available. My daughter wore heels of around 1.5" from the age of about 11 or 12 and then went up in about quarter of an inch per year as her feet grew. As a result she doesn't have bunions, hammer toes or corns. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Per Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 Well, one thing is when it is recommended to start wearing tall heels, another is what's going on out there... Last spring (april I think) at the very old amusement park "Dyrehavsbakken" north of Copenhagen I saw two girls, obviously close friends, aged about 10-11 or so, both wearing at least 4" heels, one in somewhat chunky boots, the other in true stiletto heeled boots with pointed toes. They were both fairly adept at wearing them (they even did a bit of running in them!) and the rest of their outfits matched the shoes, i.e. pretty adult-looking with belly showing below a tight top and so on. I did not see any parents and it seemed like they were on their own (the parents were probably at a restaurant somewhere else in the park - pretty common). I doubt I encountered the only such girls in the world so I have to assume that girls even that young gets attracted to the lure of high heels. Now, should we say no if our girls that age really wants to wear heels (and maybe either 'lose them' or make them wear the heels in secret) or should we allow it and offer our guidance? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Shoe Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 I saw a group of girls in very short skirts and very high heels at a McDonalds. The average age must have been about 12 and one of the staff said that they came from one of the "Traveller" sites nearby. I suppose Trailer Trash is the same world over! Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 I started wearing stiletto heels at the age of 15 - mainly for parties. Chunky heels at School. Daytime wearing of thin heels began at College - 16+. I think that for young girls - any earlier is dangerous - and an invitation for trouble. What about younger boys? real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highheeltrained Posted March 14, 2007 Author Share Posted March 14, 2007 would you let your 15 yr old ,or younger, daughter or son wear 5 inch to 6 inch heels or thigh high boots? if so, would you let them wear them out in public? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I would sit him or her down and explain that it could be a very embarrassing situaition first and leave the final dissision to them. I my self like many others here believe that it's ok to be your self and wear what ever you want without being prodded and poked at by others. real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 I have to agree with Pussy-in-Boots and Stormie that 15 or 16 should be the age of consent for girls to begin wearing heels. As for the boys--how many of us here started wearing heels at the age of 12, although not on a daily basis, and it didn't seem to harm us any. I throw this out for thought either way. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highheeltrained Posted March 15, 2007 Author Share Posted March 15, 2007 but what is the maximum heel height that you would let them wear at that age? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 Well, as a body builder and personal trainer,I have learned a little about the muscleskelleton and bone to muscle growth and I would be carefull about the hight of the heel for long periods of time as the bones have not fully developed until late into your teens. You don't want your muscles to out grow your bones as it wll cause problems later in life. real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpedup Posted March 16, 2007 Share Posted March 16, 2007 When i was in high school, there was a girl in French class that wore pumps all the time. She was about 16. I caught myself staring at them a few times, here and there. My fetish for them wasn't there back then, but it made an average girl A LOT cuter with them on. She usually wore black ones, with about a 3" heel. Not sure about the age to wear them, though. I've seen toddler girls slip into high heels before, and that's probably the age when they start feeling like there's a magic to wearing heels. Here's a vid of a little boy wearing heels.. here's a vid of 2 boys running laps in heels And here's a vid of a boy who loves wearing heels one more vid of a boy wearing heels.. There are probably a gazillion boys out there in this world who secretly have a fetish with mommy's shoes. Youtube probably has A LOT more vids of boys in heels, no matter what age. That means the future of HHplace is secure! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crotchboots-m Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 i started with moms boots at age 9 or 10..they had 2 and 1/2 inch heels...or something like that...circa 1964,so my exact memories are a bit sketchy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 To answer your question Highheeltrained--- At that age I would start them out with a 2" chunky heel to be worn only on special occasions when dressed up until their feet and bones finish growing. Then as they changed birthdays, they could go up in heel height 1/4" or 1/2" in incruments each year, and slowly let them have a proportunately thinner heel as time goes by. As for the boys wearing the heels in the vids, they all did very well, but I sure didn't start wearing heels that young. The heels fit me when I started wearing them at the age of 12. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highheeltrained Posted March 17, 2007 Author Share Posted March 17, 2007 what about letting girls age 12 to 16 wearing thigh high boots? my fience and I agree that we would let our daughter if we have one, start wearing 5 inch heels out when she turns 13. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeeelMan Posted March 18, 2007 Share Posted March 18, 2007 It all depends on the person. My eldest daughter just does not like wearing heels and only wears for special occassions 3" is the highest. My younger daughterloves heels and has done for a number of years. She could handle my 5" stills from about 14 when they fitted her without slipping off. Her walk was very confortable she didnt look awkward ans she could handle them with confidence. At 13 she did have her own pair of 4" stilletoes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 IMHO---thigh-high boots would be more for someone older than 12 to 16 years of age. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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