chip7X Posted March 26, 2002 Share Posted March 26, 2002 How do you feel when a guy notices you wearing your sexy stilettos and pay you a compliment? Do you just say thanks, or are there times when you might feel kinda uncomfortable? Has a guy ever been rude or just plain weird? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nata Posted March 26, 2002 Share Posted March 26, 2002 Well... It depends on whether his compliments correlate well with his facial expression and also the tone of his voice. Cheers, Nata Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurieheels Posted March 26, 2002 Share Posted March 26, 2002 I'll let you know if it ever happens... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Posted March 26, 2002 Share Posted March 26, 2002 It actually both feeling mixed together. It sometimes seems weird when a guy come up to me to compliment about my shoe. Where else if a women come up to me and say its nice, then its a different story all together. However I still will say thanks for his compliment on my shoe. Then I will put a fullstop there and then on his conversation. (harsh, isn't it) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IHeels Posted March 26, 2002 Share Posted March 26, 2002 People look, but compliment? Here yes, in everyday life I can't remember one. Inga HEELS are POWER the HIGHER the BETTER. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nata Posted March 26, 2002 Share Posted March 26, 2002 That's the thing that I like about Australia. You can wear whatever you like and not worry about what others might think. When I visited Brisbane the last time round, I was wearing stiletto sandals with bermudas and no one noticed anything. I expected loads of stares. Then I realised that there are a lot of girls and young women wearing shorts and bermudas with stiletto mules doing their grocery shopping on saturdays... Cheers, Nata Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurieheels Posted March 27, 2002 Share Posted March 27, 2002 It is quite unusual. I did say I will let you know when it happens, and while I wait for someone to comment on my shoes without me pointing them out, I am noticing that EVERYONE is complimenting me on my hair. There's no way to win in this world... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debbie(HK) Posted March 28, 2002 Share Posted March 28, 2002 I just say thanks, I certainly wouldn't get embarrassed about it Debbie This is a platform free shoe zone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jo-jo Posted March 28, 2002 Share Posted March 28, 2002 Same as Debbie I smile and say thank you very much! jo-jo xx Don't ask me how I walk in them just try a pair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Veronica Posted April 1, 2002 Share Posted April 1, 2002 It all depends on how it is offered. I had a nice older man with a big smile pay me the sweetest compliment the other day. I just said thank you, so nice of you to say so. It's the "How do you walk in those things?" that gets tiresome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Posted April 2, 2002 Share Posted April 2, 2002 For the "how do you walk in those things" comments, try this next time: "I don't know what to tell you. Try pretending you're me and practice towards a door." Or something like that..... Charlie Everything I say is a lie!.......I'm lying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terayon Posted April 2, 2002 Share Posted April 2, 2002 hahaha thats gold! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chip7X Posted April 2, 2002 Author Share Posted April 2, 2002 How about: "hey babycakes you look sexy in those heels" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jezebel Posted April 3, 2002 Share Posted April 3, 2002 Well, if anyone called me Babycakes, I might laugh at his choice of wording!! So many shoes, so little time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
countrycuti Posted May 26, 2002 Share Posted May 26, 2002 Can't rember a guy actually saying anything, gal's say they like my shoes and ask where I got them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azraelle Posted May 26, 2002 Share Posted May 26, 2002 On 2002-05-26 15:52, countrycuti wrote: Can't rember a guy actually saying anything, gal's say they like my shoes and ask where I got them. Just curious, what would you do if a guy asked the very same thing? "All that you can decide, is what to do with the time that is given you."--Gandalf, "Life is not tried, it is merely survived -If you're standing outside the fire."--Garth Brooks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurieheels Posted May 26, 2002 Share Posted May 26, 2002 If it were me, I'd say heelsonline and try to get some commission off of it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
countrycuti Posted May 26, 2002 Share Posted May 26, 2002 If a guy asked where I got them I would tell him. He may want to buy a pair for his girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viktoriaheels Posted May 27, 2002 Share Posted May 27, 2002 There are not many compliments here in the US, the guys just stare. If there should ever be a nice remark, i guess I would blush. ) Never without 5" heels, and always with a very short skirt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurieheels Posted May 28, 2002 Share Posted May 28, 2002 sometimes it is just nice, every now and then, for someone to say "that guy was checking you out" when I am wearing heels. it happened yesterday, and you know, I take it as a compliment, provided the guy is not fixated on me, or stalking me. Just a good glance and away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dexter23 Posted May 28, 2002 Share Posted May 28, 2002 "that guy was checking you out" when I am wearing heels. yea this heapens me a lot. If a woman walks into my direction I always take a look at the shoes and sometimes that is mistaken as "chekking her out". But that's usualy not my intention. I only want to see the shoes and the face but in order to do that you have to go all the way down and up the body.. But what about if a man complements a gal on her shoes, Do anny of you gal's like that? Or is it better to say nothing at all about you outfit. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurieheels Posted May 29, 2002 Share Posted May 29, 2002 It's best if the first few words are not about my shoes, unless you're an off duty drag queen and quite flamboyantly obvious about it. Otherwise, a man would have to make a bit of conversation before mentioning shoes, or it feels... well, it feels like objectification! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scuffy Posted May 29, 2002 Share Posted May 29, 2002 I complemented many women on their shoes and clothes. And just about always, my experience has always been positive. They always thank me. Some girls find it surprising that someone actually notice. It brighten their days. We need to compliment each other more. I say, compliments are always good. Don’t be afraid to make someone smile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MistressM Posted May 29, 2002 Share Posted May 29, 2002 I love compliments! Usually from a woman, I hear, "How do you walk in those!?" Most of the woman who ask are nice about it. The ones that are not, usually glare at me or make some snide remark as walking by. To a woman I say, "Practice. I've been wearing them for 18 years. I'm actually more graceful in high heels." I've never had a man ask how I can walk in them. They either just look or give a compliment. When they look, I smile back (and I'm thinking to myself, I bet they wish their significant other would wear them) and when they give me a compliment I say thank you. I never look to take offense to a compliment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anita C. Posted November 4, 2003 Share Posted November 4, 2003 I smile and say "Thank, you. So nice of you to say so." "Spike Heels . . a Pork-pie hat . . Have on the mend in no time flat . . Ten Minutes 'Till The Savages Come by Manhatten Transfer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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