RubenScolari Posted July 27, 2021 Share Posted July 27, 2021 Hi everybody I am Ruben, I am 28 years old . I am new to this forum. I don't know if this topic is appropriate for this forum or section. Let me know. Since I was a child I have always love heels and boots, but I never have the chance to wear and own a par until this year when I could buy 3 of them . I live in a very conservative nation where is impossible to see man wearing high heels. Which is making me very sad and anxious, is the fact that I still live with my parents and they don't know about my love for heels. So I had to hide the shoes in a place where they can't find them. This is making me very anxious , and also I have been struggling with panic attacks. This panic attacks I think are not entirely caused by the shoe issue, but some part of it. However they are occuring to me very often, and I want this anxiety to stop. So, I would like to know if someone have go through a similar situation, and how they managed to overcome it. I was thinking in throwing away my shoes in order to calm my anxiety, but I really don't want to do so and also I don't know if my anxiety will fade out after that. Is there and advice you can give me to accept my love for shoes , and to be more calm about that? I think that my parents wouldn't be angry with me if the find me, but it would be very hard to explain. Thank you very much for reading me. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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