Jump to content

Hello from Finland, new to this forum


Recommended Posts

Hello everyone!

My name is Selina, I'm a 29-year-old woman, and I live in Southern Finland. I work in a software company as a full-time job. I love photographing and making music (although I'm not particularily good at it :D)

In high school I began to discover myself and my fetishes. For some reason, I found that wearing impractical clothes turned (and still turn) me on quite a bit, and since then, the only footwear that I have worn (apart from exercising) has been high heels.

Because I like their impracticality, I always have worn heels as high as possible, and without platforms (a perfect height for me is a one where I can barely walk in them). Initally, I started with about 6 cm in high school, and currently I'm wearing some 16 cm pumps at work (I'm writing this on my lunch hour).

I also practise tightlacing, my waist being around 55 cm. 

I've always wondered why someone (mostly other women) would bother themselves with telling me that being feminine and wearing high heels is wrong etc. For example, once I was riding a subway (before the whole COVID) while wearing a fairly short and demanding skirt, paired with some office pumps. Suddenly a lady sat in right next to me and said how she's disgusted that I reinforce the patriarchate with my appearance and I'm a bad role model to my kids and so on. Guess how nice that was...

I'm so glad to meet with y'all – I really hope that here my tastes won't be judged like in real life.

S

  • Like 8
Link to post
Share on other sites

Welcome!  We always appreciate a female point of view. And glad you don’t let the opinions of others rule what you want to wear!

  • Like 2
Link to post
Share on other sites
On 9/1/2020 at 4:00 AM, Selina said:

I've always wondered why someone (mostly other women) would bother themselves with telling me that being feminine and wearing high heels is wrong etc.

Jealousy,. They can't wear/walk/whatever so nobody else should.

Just keep on be yourself and let the others eat cake.   Welcome. 

  • Like 1
Link to post
Share on other sites
  • 2 weeks later...

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using High Heel Place, you agree to our Terms of Use.