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A Mile In Her Shoes


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You know, I actually believed that this was a good cause until I learned from a corrections officer that most of the people incarcerated for domestic violence were women.

 

Now it's just a joke.

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You know, I actually believed that this was a good cause until I learned from a corrections officer that most of the people incarcerated for domestic violence were women.

 

Now it's just a joke.

 

That's kinda strange to hear. Most of the local cops seem to imply otherwise.

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Why is it that every time I read about this cause here it seems to be more about being an excuse to go out in heels in public then the actual cause? Not a big fan of the cause either. What we really need is not walk a mile in her shoes but let's walk a mile in each other's shoes. Bad shit happens to both sexes and either would benefit from learning a bit from the other, not just one. 

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Thank you Chorlini. I like that. They have not had a Walk a Mile in my neck of the woods in recent time. I have struggled with the thought of doing one because the organization promotes that the problem is strictly a man's problem. I watched as my niece's friend strongly flirted with a guy in a group of guys with no intention of taking things further. I watched as his buddies stratigized with him as to how to get her in bed. She had no idea if he was a nut job or not. Yes, guys, no means no but girls, there are freaking crazy people out there. Don't dangle the bait if you don't intend to fish as the nut jobs might not take no for an answer. So, from that perspective I find it hard to support an organization that doesn't promote responsible behavior for all parties. Best, Larry

Life is short...  Wear the bleeping shoes!

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Hey guys - - Yes, there are two sides to every coin - - - that's a given.

 

If the proceeds from the event are going to a group that you feel deserves the support, such as a battered womens shelter, then pay up and strut your stuff - - and have fun.

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It's a real shame but the comments posted are almost all negative even from the women. Also looks to be far less then 1/2 the men even wore womens shoes and very few with any real heels. Still mounds of snow in the backround. I recently moved away from Syracuse (Marcellus) and definately would have attended if I was still there. By the way Vera House does much more than violence issues, they due rehab as well.

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Hey guys - - Yes, there are two sides to every coin - - - that's a given.   If the proceeds from the event are going to a group that you feel deserves the support, such as a battered womens shelter, then pay up and strut your stuff - - and have fun.

There you go. The whole thing is a fundraiser, and we get to wear heels!
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So where are the fundraising events for domestic violence against men or prostate cancer. Why are only women's causes worthy of fundraising?

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So where are the fundraising events for domestic violence against men or prostate cancer. Why are only women's causes worthy of fundraising?

 

I spent the better part of a day listening to and participating in a presentation provided by Warren Farrell during a men's leadership seminar.  His opinion, supported by decades of research, might just answer that question.  It's been a while and there is a lot of detail to go into so I will only recommend reading his book, "The Myth of Male Power."  Within this book Farrell shares an eye opening vantage regarding the place men and women hold in society.

 

Best,

Larry

 

The Myth of Male Power:

http://www.warrenfarrell.org/

Life is short...  Wear the bleeping shoes!

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So where are the fundraising events for domestic violence against men or prostate cancer. Why are only women's causes worthy of fundraising?

One I can think of is Kilted to Kick Cancer. Men wear kilts for prostate and testicular cancer awareness. It's not widely publicized but it's growing.
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One I can think of is Kilted to Kick Cancer. Men wear kilts for prostate and testicular cancer awareness. It's not widely publicized but it's growing.

That's great! But, is there participation by women at these events?

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