johnieheel Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I am just amazed at how much we talk about men posting in the womens section and how some just can't sem to get it. What part of "FOR WOMEN ONLY" don't they understand? real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stilettoscot Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I plead guilty yesterday and I apologize. The 2-3 times I have were because I saw the thread link in the "Online Activity" section and the thread is being perused. Seeing the title, and not paying attention to what forum it is in, I post...then realise. Trust me, it wasn't intentional... Walking in ultra-highs because it's exciting...and it is!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted December 10, 2008 Author Share Posted December 10, 2008 I plead guilty yesterday and I apologize. The 2-3 times I have were because I saw the thread link in the "Online Activity" section and the thread is being perused. Seeing the title, and not paying attention to what forum it is in, I post...then realise. Trust me, it wasn't intentional... Honest mistake. Exceptable. real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I am just amazed at how much we talk about men posting in the womens section and how some just can't sem to get it. What part of "FOR WOMEN ONLY" don't they understand? I do understand your frustration and it seems like a pretty simple request for men not to post there (honest mistakes get a mulligan). I just wish more women who are members here would post in the "guy's section" or the "for everyone" section more often. I know every man at this sight loves hearing the women's inputs and some of the rhetoric back and forth between the guys and girls has been classic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondtake20 Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I have done it a couple of times and I am Sorry! I do respect the rule and understand why. I have gotten rapped up in reading the threads and forgot where I was. I wish more of the ladies would feel welcome to comment more on the threads because I respect what they have to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Maybe its because some guys suffer from gender ambiguity...Maybe the rules should say if you have a Y chromosome, don't post there...Heck I feel guilty if I even READ the girl's section... Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HHLover Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I'm with Stilettoscot on this one. I'm sure while some posts might be done without any regard for forum rules, a lot of them might just happen by accident. For example, if you click on the "New Posts" heading, it brings up ALL of the new posts since you last logged in. It isn't obvious where the post you are reading, actually belongs. Yes, it IS there, but it isn't obvious. If you're flying through posts, you could easily miss it and post to the women's forum. As a new user, I've been very careful not to post in the wrong place when viewing the new posts this way. Don't want to get a bad rap. Just my 2 cents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jwhite44 Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 The New Posts link has done me in several times. If it really gets to be a problem, I have to think there's a way in the BBS to restrict which forums can be posted in. I'll be more than happy to register myself as a guy and be blocked from posting in the For Women Only section. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5.5 Thrill Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Heck I feel guilty if I even READ the girl's section... Me too! So I don't. IF GIRLS CAN WEAR PANTS THEN I CAN WEAR HEELS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I think I've been guilty of one or two of the polls just by going into the surveys section and not realising shortly after joining. Don't think I've done an actual post. Sharing two log ons on the same computer with my other half (AnneV) it would be possible to create the error easier. I always try to remember to place my short name at the bottom to denote it's me. I have said before if the thread is relevant and I wish to comment I would respectfully PM the relevant person, that is a Big IF, otherwise I stay quiet. Al Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnieheel Posted December 11, 2008 Author Share Posted December 11, 2008 Don't get me wrong guys, It doesn't bother me. I just wanted to see what kind of response to this post I would get. I see we are all being very honest about it and friendly. Thats what counts. real men wear heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HHfanatic Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 I`m not 100% sure about this...but I beleave I have seen some female replay in "For the Guys" threads without being deleted. Is it so that the female can replay in our thread but not the other way around? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tightsnheels Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 Yes it is so, that we guys can not post in the girls section but they can post in ours. That said, it is for good reason as we guys would very easily outstrip any thread put in their section and drive away the remaining female membership. I try not to even enter the girls section so as not to even be tempted to post anything. Although occasionally I will see the title of a thread that will catch my eye as humorous or just curiosity but I feel more like an eavesdropper so I really try to avoid their section. I think good advice for any of us blokes is to respect their privacy and just avoid the entire section. T&H "Look for the woman in the dress, if there is no dress there is no woman."-Coco Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jkrenzer Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Yes it is so, that we guys can not post in the girls section but they can post in ours. That said, it is for good reason as we guys would very easily outstrip any thread put in their section and drive away the remaining female membership. I try not to even enter the girls section so as not to even be tempted to post anything. Although occasionally I will see the title of a thread that will catch my eye as humorous or just curiosity but I feel more like an eavesdropper so I really try to avoid their section. I think good advice for any of us blokes is to respect their privacy and just avoid the entire section. T&H I'm sorry but I will read their posts just because I want to but I respect and do not post. What's fair is fair and equal rights so to speak does go both ways. I do not feel bad for reading their posts as I am sure they do not feel bad about reading ours. Besides that is why the site has a place for everybody. Ca'mon guys stand up and be counted for yourselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 I think good advice for any of us blokes is to respect their privacy and just avoid the entire section. T&H I concur. Very good advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 When it was first put in that we guys were not to post in the "For the Gals" thread, I got caught by the "New POsts" catagory myself and posted where I shouldn't quite by accident until I caught on and now ignore that "New Posts" catagory all together. I also don't even read the "For the Gals" thread at all so that I won't make that mistake again. I figure that if the "Gals" want us to know something, then they will either post in the "For the Guys" thread, or the "For Everybody" thread. It works for me. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HHfanatic Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 I have to admit I stay out of the "for the girls" thread myself... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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