RPMindy

With a Santa like you Gina, it's going to be a great end of year!! RPM

Angie, You're so right. I've come to appreciate that a lot these past few days. I've been making more suggestions to my lady about things I want to see taking place. I've ran into the first layer of serious insecurity that I must have missed all along our dating lives. She is so concious about her figure and she does such a great job hiding her self-consciousness. i know she's concerned, but had no idea how much so. I learned in the past few weeks that the approach you've mentioned works to put her mind at ease about how she views herself and then frees her to consider what i'm suggesting. (doesn't mean I get it right away or at all either) In addition to loving my lady in heels, I love seeing women drive while looking sexy (that to me means just love seeing them drive period because I think most women are sexy no matter what) Her insecurities are posing a challenge for me that i've taken on with great interest. to me, this is a great time to be Mr nice guy, romantic, patient, understanding, and supportive. So, the goal is not so much getting what I want, but showing her that I care and love her as she is and in time getting her to see what I'm seeing. The added bonus would be if she did what I asked, but it's only an added bonus. (in all honesty, i sometimes feel like screaming and saying what is the big deal. but that is because i'm seeing it from a man's point of view. to me it's no big deal. to her, it's a great big deal.) I want her to wear her leather skirt she wore on one of our first dates. she feels fat in it and refuses to wear it again (even after loosing weight after the first wear). i had no idea she felt that way. i think she looks so hot in it!! but, she doesn't. i don't get it, she's so hot in that skirt!! actually, my lady is plain hot to me!!! (and to more guys than I care for.. but that is a compliment to her and I) Back on topic, Angie, you put into words so well what I'm learning and what most men fail to realize about their women. RPM p.s. after posting, i realize i was in the ladies forum. I'm sorry for posting so much here (especially this thread). I'll try harder not to invade you gal's place.

Ellen-Jay, I seriously love that picture!!! Awesome curves. Great selection between the shoes and the hose!! great pose too!!!! Wonderfully and seductively done!!! As for the nmber one spot, don't anyone dare try to get my number one spot!!! I got the spot and I'm keeping it!!! :evil: Can't get too far from Ellen-Jay RPM

Shrimper, it's a position I had to earn and will continue to fight for!!!! Believe you me, I am not going down without a fight!!!!! Ellen-Jay looks way too sexy and way too hot for me to give up my spot as the number one fan!!! Welcome Chris to the list of highly enthusiastic fans of Ellen-Jay. Shrimper, you've got heat for your spot! RPM

Hey Dawn, wait until I post some of my other pictures later this week. I've been able to talk a few friends into letting me take pics.. so this space will get a few more RPM

on the topic, i've not seen too much heeling at funerals. but i try to avoid them as much as possible. not because i have a thing against them, but because I hate to be in a situation with all that crying and can't do a thing about it. i feel way too weird. but, i've had a few close people die in the past and I went there to be support to others and pay respects. as for heels at funerals, I have found that some influencial folks have brought out mourners in really tall heels especially if they passed away in the spring. So, spring funeral tends to bring out serious heels. but i'm too wrapped into the event to really pay it much mind. weddings are much different, not looking at the heels to me is like a wasted event! RPM

i've enjoyed reading this thread. BB, you've posted some very non-bimbo comments... (had to take a swing at your name cuz i likes ur comments) My lady will not wear any shoe that she feels she won't be comfy in. She told me she never really did heels because she thought of the pain it would be. I had to do my research and find a toe-box that would be comfy for her to try and introduce her to heels. I was a wreck looking for that pair. luckily, I found it. Now she wears heels between 4 and 5 inch well. She's gone upwards of 14 hours in some of her heels. I was there most of the 14 hours. She showed no signs of discomfort where she'd have to sit out of the action. other pairs, she'll bring her flats with her so that towards the end of the day (past 6 to 8 hours wear) she'll switch for a breather before going back to them. She likes various style of heels, but comfort to her is of utmost importance. most of her friends are that way about their heels. I met a lot of women who just go by the fashion and take the pain as a given. A lot of pics i've posted here are from such women who will put style before comfort. So, some women seem not to know better and are amazed when they find a style that is comfy to wear. other believ that comfort and high heels is a myth that can't be found and are haters of high heels and high heel wearers. others are like my lady, they will not rest until they find a comfortable heel to wear to any event, no matter what. I got lucky, my lady has found places that have readymade shoes that are comfortable for her. she takes her time to shop for her shoes. she says the day high heels stop being comfortable, she will stop wearing them. I hope such a day never comes. In her short career in heels, she and I have not noticed any changes in her toes and feet. her sister has been wearing heels a lot longer and has not noticed any changes. my aunt has been wearing heels longer than i've been alive and her feet seems just fine. (we're talking constant 5 inch wear) so, in conclusion..... some women are masochist and others aren't! RPM

keep us informed. i'm 30 and a virgin and proud of it. YOu've got folks here who care about you enough to put their pennies worth here. DOn't despair!!! RPM

Hi again,

Thanks for the compliments. Here is something a little different.

RPM

Hey BB, I know you're all settled here, but I didn't get to say hey and welcome. I like reading your post here. Enjoy your new home here. I gave up on leaves myself... I just don't care anymore... to much work. that is where hired help comes in handy. RPM

RPm - you should take a look at EJ's yahoo group. There's a lot more pictures there!

EJ - great group by the way. It's good to see more of you!

Bob.

I enjoy her group a lot. She has put up great sets after great sets and other members have posted too. I've at times gotten so carried away with my words (such as the word interesting) that at this point, I bet she just does this....

But E-J knows I'm her biggest fan, even when I don't express it. I get lost sometimes looking at her pics and the lovely gracious curves that makes her E-J.

RPM

Awesome pics Sam!!!! Very impressive. I love the camera angle, brings out the details of your hose and heels. Love the hose. To copy the words of an actor 'great form my dear, great form'. I agree, you've got a great posture in those heels and very nice set of curves on your legs. Great post!! I don't wear heels, but encouraged my lady to try. I can't fanthom doing what you're doing with those heels. I know my lady can't either... but I"m not going to get on her case to try either. What my babbling is saying, great job!!! I'm impressed RPM

Let's get back on topic....i.e enough about you, let's look at me!!!

Ellen-Jay

You said to look at you, and I did... but then I got to thinking. How do you expect to know what I think... so, I'm telling ya in addition to looking.

I absolutely love that pose for a number of reason. You look so beautiful sitting that way. Your racy and sexy curves are so well proportioned they make the shoe that much hotter in the picture (red my fav already too). Then, your legs re-define those hose such a way, one barely notices the details of them, but how the wrap and caress your wonderful legs. The open toe deliciously shows off your toes and the color of the nail exceptionally well.

The picture has the impact of dropping the viewers jaw and making them stop and reflect on just how angelic your beauty is. I really like that picture. Says alot about how beautiful you are, however, being 2 dimensional in view, the full effect of your beauty is only appreciated by those who see you everyday, and only in depth by your hubby.

It's a very refreshing real picture of a real woman looking hot and confident about it. I would love to see more pictures of you with similar composition, but for now, i'll return to just looking at you!!!

RPM

p.s. that picture made my day!

Hey BB,

Your name makes me laugh, but that is another post (you don't live up to your name with your intelligent responses)

What I wanted to say, as much as I claim to know how to make my woman happy and claim to keep her so, you opened my eyes to a key distinction that I get wrong often. Thanks for clearing that up for me.

I don’t know how to put it, but I guess most men would think that:

“Those shoes would look really sexy on you”

is the same as

“You would look so sexy with those shoes”

– believe me it isn’t!

BB, thank you for making that very clear to me. I know deep inside there is a marked difference, but that is where it stays. I thought I was always sounding sweet no matter which I used. So far, it hasn't really bitten me in the behind, but I will be much much more careful of my choice of words and take a moment extra to see a woman's take on it.

I try to be a gentleman, but every now and again, I learn new things that help me get the gentleman duties done more effortlessly. Thanks again.

So, to recap for me, compliments work wonders, especially if they are honest and heart felt.. but when complimenting, always... it's the woman who looks hot, not the item she wears. Cool! (by the way, it's so easy for a guy like me to make the error in compliment .. can't speak for other guys)

RPM

p.s. going back to silently observing......

i've got to go fix a few shorted brain-cells before i can respond... if i can at all!

sorry folks. forgot to long it, usually it reminds me..... oh well RPM

I learned quite a bit about motor homes and trailer homes. Thanks guys for the info. Dawn, I hear you on the cost of living, it's crazy that educated folks opt for the affordability of trailer homes. I had a relative that lived in one, you couldn't tell unless she told you it was a trailer home.. it wasn't even in a trailer part per se either. Peachy, nice way to condition your already superbly sexy legs. Shame it is so irritating and uncomfortable. RPM

in some parts of the US, even the sidewalks are being covered with bricks that can catch heels. Not to mention the whole grate system in the inner cities that are deadly to heels of all types (except the super chunky ones) I don't know who started that movement, but it's growing. as for campers, RVs and motorhomes, it all depends on the pricerange and use that determinds if it's a high class vacation or a 'white trash' home. I hate the term,but it's what is used RPM

they do grow on you. the 'racing stripes' I think are flag colors for some country.... i think but seeing these on my own monitor (for a change) the colors look better. I see why you don't like them. Not as bad as i thought, using my monitor. but hey, you make them look good. You know how to put someting really nice into all you wear! RPM

I just might be interested... i'll PM you later about that! RPM

now that i've picked up most of my jaw, i love the composisiton of both pics. super sexy!!! the first is my fav combo with the reds. the seond, well, talk about sexy and creative!! the hand in the pic is a superb touch!!! you keep on rocking your fan RPM

exactly what Dawn said. E-J, forgive me for not having more to say, but i'm still picking up my jaw!!! RPM

RPMindy, which pair of pumps are you talking about? the pointy toe one or the one with the chunky heel? The chunky ones actually started out as a pair of aldo boots but they were a bit too small and uncomfortable so i cut off the shaft as an experiment and they actually look and feel pretty nice i think. the pointy ones are too small and i never wear....im going to get around to selling a lot of these off as most are in fact too small....i just havent gotten around to it yet

i think it's pic number 7 in the last set you put up a few pages ago on this thread. the pointy toe one. well, you never wear, too bad it's too small. what size are they? and what brand are they? I might just be interested if the heel height is taller than 4 inch (but doesn't have to be)

Amy, where are you, i"m missing your pictures!!!!

last one for the day. a modified pic that i took. i'm trying to hide my friend's identity. she didn't want to be posted on the web, but agreed to let me take the shot! enjoy.

this one was taken outside... better lighting!!! lighting is key, but that heel isn't too much to look at, but nice that i got it.

http://www.pix8.net/pro/pic.php?u=10770LdHUj&i=641898