RPMindy

it's like Dawn said, it depends on the person. a friend of mines has huge calves when she's in heels, but she used to be a sprinter too and when she's in heels, her calves look so much larger than when she's not. my lady has big calves that are more defined in heels than when she's not either. but i've got other lady friends who show no definition at all no matter what heel they wear. if you want to build up and tone up calves, they need to be subject to some strength training just like any other major muscles. and depending on her genes, she'll be able to grow them. wearing heels only accents what is already there. like you said, you hope she goes with it, but don't push her to do somethign she doesn't want to do. she'll do it for you out of love, but as long as you just love her not what she's doign more than her. good luck with it and welcome aboard! RPM

my lady feels the same way. they got all the cute small size sandals that will fit kids or folks with small feet, but then the selection gets slim above size 8.5 my lady is a 9.5

plus the prices aren't as great.

lovemyshoes is another store with a wide selection of options. some stores have a great selection that would make DSW jealous, but other stores aren't as big. www.lovemyshoes.com is their website. they do follow the trends more than I care for though.

as for their commercials, i've seen two of them. very well thought out and competitive with Victoria's Secret in terms of originality. worth the look.

RPM

what a wonderful picture!!!! glad you're here. please pass on my compliments to you lady for me!!! great pic. RPM p.s. now that would be a lovely secretary for my office... paid top dollar of course!

everyone has their preference and this place meets the needs!!! I agree, the jeans are in the way of Tara's feet!!!! RPM

Gina and Oliver, the queen and king of heeling!! I absolutely love these pics of yours! I agree with Ruud's statement... Gina, you get a bigger kick out of your posing and heeling than you let on, right? RPM

PiB, now that is what i'm talking about! drive on in those heels then!!! RPM

both are very lovely pics. you have great legs!!!! I am more partial to the second pic... being a pump fan. great form in standing in heels that tall! if you got more, please do share.. very sexy RPM

please pass on to Tara my compliments!!! If you have any other pictures of her in those clogs in other angles, do not hesitate to post them up here if you want! I'd appreciate it greatly! she looks great in them! Thanks Aimee1 RPM p.s. if she does clean in them like this, I can make an offer to have her clean my place!!! nothing naughty either... just cleaning.

Hey Shoebeedo. I don't konw what the situation with the pm's are. I get them all the time. but i'll email you and we'll chat that way. as for the mom being the one introducing fetish wear, i do agree that with teen boys, that can be a major issue! I remmeber my teen years. My mom was so 'old school' the concept of a woman being attractive never crossed my mind. when her sister came by once, i was very 'upset' to know from her that women do look hot. The most frustrating part of it is how my dad handled it... but that is another story. When I said age appropriate disclosure, I also meant if the father also had his say in it. i think, but don't have the research to back it up, that if the father had some talk with the son (nothing formal like sitting on the couch to talk about it) using the appropriate media ( like a magazine while working on the car or somethign like that) the idea would be easier for the son to hear and understand. teens already have a bad enough time talking to mom and dad about anything. but i won't digress much today. I do believe there is a point somewhee in a teen boys life that such a conversation can take place. the parent needs to know that teen and figure when is the best time. until i'm a dad myself... i rather not pitch more ideas... i don't have the experience to say much more than my opinion. RPM

Hey Shoebeedo. I don't konw what the situation with the pm's are. I get them all the time. but i'll email you and we'll chat that way. as for the mom being the one introducing fetish wear, i do agree that with teen boys, that can be a major issue! I remmeber my teen years. My mom was so 'old school' the concept of a woman being attractive never crossed my mind. when her sister came by once, i was very 'upset' to know from her that women do look hot. The most frustrating part of it is how my dad handled it... but that is another story. When I said age appropriate disclosure, I also meant if the father also had his say in it. i think, but don't have the research to back it up, that if the father had some talk with the son (nothing formal like sitting on the couch to talk about it) using the appropriate media ( like a magazine while working on the car or somethign like that) the idea would be easier for the son to hear and understand. teens already have a bad enough time talking to mom and dad about anything. but i won't digress much today. I do believe there is a point somewhee in a teen boys life that such a conversation can take place. the parent needs to know that teen and figure when is the best time. until i'm a dad myself... i rather not pitch more ideas... i don't have the experience to say much more than my opinion. RPM

i just came on to check up on things here on this site and ran into this developement here... 1- Scotty, thanks for the point of caution you posted. This is a very public forum and info like this can be super damaging!! 2-Shoebeedo, you said you're a lurker. You've not identified the extent to which you interact with folks on the various forums, but I am inclined to believe that as a lurker you didn't do much interacting with forum members... so your 'inferences' sound dangerous to me 3-I agree that adults need to be mindful of their activities around their children. I 've seen kids who had moms that were bombshells in 5 inch heels at PTA meetings. Those kids were very productive successful members of the community and no harm can be noted in their behaviours (up until we lost touch as adults) 4-if a child sees the proper use of whatever it may be from their parents, they are more likely to make proper decisions later in life. if they know that as a child they shouldn't dress beyond their years (for the aforementioned reasons), they should be also encouraged to find their passions without guilt as adults... the key distinction is that if you make sex and fetishes dirty, they become adults who can get confused by guilt for feeling what they feel. but if they know that in adulthood in a committed relationship (or whatever is your definition of appropriateness) they can explore without guilt with a consenting mature adult, they're good to go, then they have incintive to wait until adulthood (so we hope) 5- in the previous point, what helped me get passed the confusion of my interest in high heels, one woman took the time out of her life to explain to me that it was ok to feel what i feel and that high heels are sexy. there is a time and place to enjoy that fact and as a young teen, it wasn't the time, but in adulthood it would be fine. my folks point of view is that high heels aren't for viewing pleasure and its wrong for a man to find such pleasure. well... after working that out for myself, i like seeing women in high heels.(much more comfy about the matter as an adult than i ever was as a kid). i didn't become a perv or a molester, but that kind input that was appropriately said to me (better than how I typed it) helped me a lot. 6-Shoebeedoo... I don't know where your source of info comes from. I don't know if you got it from Missy or Post Code or from the news. What I do know is what I know. From what I know and was told in confidence, your comments on this thread saddens me a lot. I am aware of the issue tha plagued Missy, based on what she told me in trust. Her version and yours don't quite add up. It's her personal matter, I won't divulge more than this. But I am deeply sadden. the links and connections you left open in your post can get those who don't know Missy to conclude very damaging conclusions. 7- It's a public forum. She is not here to express herself. I understand you're trying to bring a point of caution for those who are raising kids and plan on raisin kids. I feel you could have made your point without singling out Missy. I was an active member on her forum. I've seen almost 99.9% of her posted images. I've chatted with her on how she models them and where her kids are when she's doing those shoots. I've asked her about her dinners too. She was very frank and open with me. Trust me, she took extreme lengths to keep her activities appropriate for the kids that she had. She took enough measures that it reassure me that I can still have fun with my wife (whenever I get married) and not have the kids know that i'm having fun!! you'll have to take my word on the fact she took all the precautions that one can take 8-because it's a public forum... this is all I can say. the lessons to take, one must weigh out the choices they make even as adult. the world will think what it wants. life happens no matter what you want to do with it. outside influences will have to be dealt with. kids are the sum of their genes, their parents, and the outside real world, and t.v. land. any combo of these inputs can yield results you're not anticipating. especially if you throw into the mix a child's personal imagination. 9-Missy did us a favor and kept her limits and asked we respect that. she didn't comply to request that wasn't in her limits. she set the bar on a clean site and how to run it well. I keep that as a treasure. it is however unfortunate that she went through what she did (both what I know and what the public knows) <she's got to deal with what folks think happened as well as what she knows happened> 10-shoebeedoo.. if you want to pm me where you got your info from.. feel free. I won't discuss it anywhere else. I'm taken aback by the version you posted. should it be a news bit of info... then i'm really sad for her and him. if it's another forum... i'l take it with a grain of salt. if you know her personally... let's talk in pm about that too. if you don't want to... that is also fine with me RPM

Great luck to you. the gold ones look hot but my preference is for the red ones!!! they look more your style. but I'd like to hear how you get along in both when you do get them. I"m sure a few nice pics would be great, even one on the pedals!!!! RPM

xlheels, talk about stamina. that is a major challenge and i'm sure most will have a hard time beating!!! great accomplishment. i won't do that myself or ask anyone to do it. takes a lot out of ya! nice pic by the way! RPM

amazing pics!! i wish I was that great a photographer already!!! man those are hot! RPM

Hey Skymaster, we've chatted on another forum, so you know my point of view. It was great to have shared your pics and I've learned from your terrific style of picture taking. I've been inspired and I've shared some of my work with you guys here. The end of one era. I hope to step up to the plate and produce equally impressive work in the futre to help fill a tiny part of the huge void that will happen from you ending the sharing era. I'm glad you two enjoy it so much. I really enjoy shooting pictures myself. Glad your'e not putting the camera down for good!! you're too young for that RPM

ferrari, I do share your curiousity also. I love seeing women in high heels. but wearing them was a child hood thing that i feel i've outgrown. wearing them do nothing for me. i just love to watch the ladies do what they do. so you're not the only one on this forum who prefers to watch. but like you, i'd like to hear more from the guys who like wearing them so I can better understand... instead of relying on my ideas of it. RPM

never said tony would be the driver. I have the name RPMindy for a reason I'd be driving the 20 to deliver the flowers!!!!!!! shows what you really know!!!! RPM p.s. eitherway Gina, you're off the hook and deserve that attention you're getting!!! shame it's not more!

excatly my thoughts wickets!!! I'd sent her real flowers deliverd by the #20 Nascar!!!!! RPM

Gina, you made this weekend complete!!!!! great pics!!!!! RPM

mighty fine photo my friend, mighty fine.. hope this 'while' isn't goit to be measured in weeks!!! RPM

thanks guys, I do have more pics coming at a later date... tight on time right now. here is the short version stories for you Bob. The third pic... I swung by to pick up my lady. I was to take her home so she could change before going to co-host a concert. She asked me to wait before taking her home. she was in a meeting with some of the concert planners and staff. while waiting, this woman sits next to me and exhales hard and slips off her shoes. she looks at me and mumbles something about the price of making a man happy who doesn't notice anything. I didn't touch that because she sounded a bit irritated. so i moved around that room like I was looking for something and sat off to the side and too the picture. later when she looked more calm, I showed it to her.. she blushed stammered and laughed. she said i made her day but felt embarassed that I took the pic. she went to put her shoes on and I said, please, don't let me be one of those unappreciative guys that make your feet hurt for no reason... she laughed again and said you're cool. i told her I was going to post it here, she hesitated, then i complimented her feet and she smiled and said ok. the fourth pic... at the concert later that day, during intermission, i asked this lady who modeled for me in the past to sit up on the edge of the staircase and let me take a picture of her shoes. after a surprisingly dirty look and a long pause, she said i'm only messing with you.. got up, took the pose, i took the picture. she said, email her a copy and do what ever you want with it. when she saw the pic, she gave me a hug and said i was a good photographer. so that is that story... I'm still in awe about that one. gotta go. RPM

very nice. welcome to the forum. I use photobucket and pix8... neither leaves that black bar on the thumbnails. compliments to the lady!!!!!!!!

it's been a while... here is a few more... other shoots in the past.

RPM

oopsss. forgot to log in. RPM

here is my final thoughts on his postings...... 1-he doesn't live in any modern part of the world... i'm surprised he has access to the web... i'm not trying to be mean.. but you don't sound like you know anything about the creatures we call teens!!!! 2-push all you want... but if she's not into it.. prepare for a nasty backlash 3-i would love to be the therapist who has to deal with you when you can't figure out where you went wrong with your daughter 4-buddy.. you have very great ambitions (as far as heeling is concerned)... if you seriously plan to go through with this (despite hearing reservatoin about it) please... get a legal team ready..... social services gets wind of this... you're up to your eyeballs in grief (in the US that is... can't speak for any other place) 5-someone earlier suggest I pay your post no mind... great advice for me! i'm done. i'm not in a most kind mood today.. so my post does reflect it a bit. but my point still stands.. brace yourself. modern teens aren't as forgiving of pressure from parents.. my youngest sibbling is living proof of it......(and he was mild too) RPM