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Hi I had great fun a few years ago in the shoe shops, and some of them went up to my size (42-44). I will post a poosible date when I have planned a little more. we might even meet each other and maybe i could talk you into trying on in the shops ( it is easier if there are more than one of you for the first time) best wishes until then. Nigel

Intresting man? Is that all you can say highheellover? Kerm 191, I think there are a few things that interested me, first of all for your first time out, you were taking some massive risks, I dont know what part of the UK you live in but being found wearing that outfit around a school could have got you into a lot of trouble. The second thing is that it was very cold last night and whilst you may have felt warm when you thought you were getting found out, you could have made yourself ill. thirdly, I would go some place safer next time so that you can wear your hobble dress without having to run away. I hope you have more fun like this, but be more careful, we dont want you being arrested for creeping around schools. Nigel

Hi, we will be coming over for a few days (midweek) about March/April time just for a short City break. We could meet up then perhaps, do you know Amsterdams best shoe shops? perhaps you could show us around them? let us know if you are op for it? Nigel

Hi sscotty727, Whenmy wife was carying, she was the picture of health, I had a feeling that we were going to have a girl, It just felt like it. As your wife is reacting differently this time, do you think that you might be due a son? I dont know much about these sort of things but I am learning. I am pretty good at nappies or what ever they are called over on your side of the pond. I am sure you will be over the moon if it is a boy or a girl. I will keep my fingers crossed that everything goes well. Nigel

look forward to your return gene

daz

I second Daz on this.

chat soon.

Nigel.

Hi, let us see some pictures as soon as you can. also, Where abouts in the world are you? Nigel

Hi Jim C, I am guessing that the heel is about an inch wide? also, I have never tryed on a pair of lace up boots, do thet take long to do up? it looks like you got a great deal there. Micha, Have you visited the real liife meetings thread? there are loads of us gues who dont mind showing our face, come to think of it, its the girls that seem to be letting the side down, Gina seems to be doing most of the work for you girls. Here is one of my wife sitting on a wall next to me here on the right in her 'killer heels'. When Heelfans house move has finished, we will get him to update the 'put a face to the name thread. Nigel

Well, I was expecting to see loads of post on this subject suggesting that it might be something passed down from father to son, but it would apear that we are either a new breed or our dads were very good at hiding their heels. If we follow the new breed theory, then perhaps we wont have anything to pass on down the line to our sons? (exept I have a daughter, picture found on the bristol real life meet) 'twould be a shame. Nigel

My definition of fit has changed too. It used to be, “my foot went in”, now the shoes/boots have to be comfortable.

I am with you on this,

a while ago I would have concidered a pair if my foot went in, now I find myself holding back and waiting for the right style in the right size.

There are a nice pair of knee boots in Asda (walmart) that are very snug 8, but I am looking around the other shops at the moment for a similar pair (blade heel, flat toe) that Ifit better so that I could walk a mile or two in them.

As for the subject of this thread, the Asda boots are hung up in the middle of the womans section, I just took them off the rack and tried them on, my wife was with me and she can vouch that nobody even looked at me.

As for the ther boots I like, I have to find them in a 9 or 10 to try on, but I know the store sells those sizes so I will have to trawl through all the shops in the outh and west of England.

My wife is a qualified photographer, so when we went looking for a digital camera to we looked for the following things, The feel of the camera, the optical zoom, the batteries and of course the price. The result was the Fuji S5000, i think it has been replaced by the S5500 and cost £240 a year or so ago. it feels like a proper camera, it has a 10x optical zoom and if the batteries are flat we don't need a charger as it takes AA's it works great with windows xp and Mandrake 10. Nigel

Unfortunatly nearly all of my presentations are to men, although I did have one woman on a course last year, she up until the year before was a man and was not wearing very nice shoes. I think that if you are getting turned on that much by women wearing high heels, it will be best to make sure you are standing behind a big lectern whilst giving a a presentation. Nigel.

I think dr shoe is almost right on this as my second best Idea of an idea woman, however my wife wears size 4-5 and me a 8-11, but we agree on most styles of shoe and heel. The most ideal woman is the one that lets you wear heels too and lets me use her as my Avator on the left hand side of this thread. She is the best. Nigel

Okay, you guys have one over on me as I went to a boys school and I dont remeber anybody wearing heels. We were fairly close to a girls school, but I was more interested in cars and bunking off school then. hay ho. made me the man I am now

I can see it.

http://www.famousfootwear.com/product.asp?p=1005943%7E&variant_id=22986#

Nigel

Laurieheels Sorry, But I have read the other postings and they sound just like opinions to me. We are all entitled to them and through the power of the inter net able to share our thoughts. As for Me? I am going to make an effort to watch next weeks show, then I feel that I will be able to join in your request to discuss the show, I hope you don't mind waiting until then. Nigel

Mr EvilScotsman Sir, Could you tell us how long they take to do up and if they stay up well? they are pretty 'king lovely. Nigel

I was just guessing on a seaside town, I will have a look myself when I paas there next. NIgel

Hi, Jimnj3.

If she's at all comfortable with your wearing a woman's shoe, she'll be downright thrilled if you were to buy a pair of jeans an inch or two longer than what you normally wear and hide an even higher heel beneath it - provided the portion that does appear either looks like a man's shoe, or at the very least, doesn't scream, "Yo! I'm just peaking out the front, here, but you should see what's hidden beneath the jeans! I'm talking HIGH, there, how are you?"

Know what I mean?

I know what you mean!!

over here in blighty the shops are doing 'boot cut' (flares) for men and I paid £10 for my pair in Asda Wallmart, you would not know I was wearing heels under them.

on the subject of Asda, i tried on apair of their 3 and a half inch heel knee boots last week , I was suprised to find that I could fit into a pair of their size 8, no if they had a less pointy toe, I would checking with my wife to see if I could have them.

good luck on beeing descrete for a while, and remember your idea of a while might not be as hers'

Posting a picture seems to be a bit of a battle of late what with 'our own' server being closed and image host not taking any more pics. They have however provided a list of some other places that can do it for you, follow their instructions, copy and paste the url they give you into your next post. if you are struggling, then email me the pic and I will do it for you. By the way I think you are somewhere like Sidmouth or Torquay? it has to be somewhere here in Blighty as the shoe shop is Shoe Zone. Nigel

Hi, looks like a good job done, how did you make the replacement heel? or did you buy it? it fits in well with the rest of the boot. Nigel

Hi, I am not sure where the heels thing comes from, as for my dad, no chance. my brothers, no chance, my sisters, all in flats now. I have one nephew who I am watching very closely though. Nigel

TV was invented for communication. I however watch very little communication on it, for me it is escapism the more far fetched the better. I will try to catch it next week. Nigel

You will have to go shopping Imagine the disappointment in finding out that they don't fit or they are not what you both want! my wife has shoes in sizes from a 4 and a half to a 7 and I have pairs from and 8 to a 11. if she is up for anything, then she should to be up for a shopping trip. go and get something you both like and want, there is nothing better than going shoe shopping to get yourselves in the mood. When I am unhappy or in a mood I ask my wife try on some boots or shoes when we are shopping, iit is sure to cheer me up. I have just seen where you live, if there are no shops close to you then drive/fly somewhere and make a long weekend of it, It will be easy to talk her in to going away for a naughty weekend. Nigel

Hello there HighHeelsLover, Did you look in the sections mentioned to see what we look like wearing heels? You will have seem some of the guys wear more discreet heels and some like our own Dr Shoe goes all out! Hopefully you can see the styles of clothes that us guys can wear and enjoy. If you are looking for something a little more saucy then it wont take you long to find dozens if not more of sites with guys in heels and not much else if you surf around for about 5 seconds. let us know what you are after exactly, I am sure some of us here can find the pictures you are after. best of luck, Nigel

Hi all, A few posts ago I was horrified by the way Jimnj3's wife was treating him and his shoes, I have been only married for a few years but as some of you will remember, I told my wife a few months before the big day, I am quite concerned that Jimnj3's wife seems to have changed her mind about heels from throwing them out to now letting you wear heels again. I might be wrong here but it sounds to me that she is repulsed by the really high platform types but will tolerate the lower and less outrageous heels. If I was a single guy i would be buying heels at every opportunity, I guess I would have a collection running into the hundreds by now. Being married means give and take. your wife does not sound like she can tell you what she finds acceptable as she does not how to deal with it, and that is fair enough, don't ruin your marriage over this and work with her to find out how far you can go with different styles of heels and shoes. If she is happy with them, you will be able to wear them, then you will be happy. They may not be your dream pair of heels, but dreams are lost when they become reality.