Pierre1961

So,to avoid men in skirt or whatever is NOWDAYS women fashion we need a fashion gourou who is allowed to decide .

No talk as: in the past the men were wearing heels,so it normal to see a man in heel nowadays.That reassures some men but convinces no one 

i don't wish to be crucify by members here who love wearing skirts,have painted nails....I sincerely admire some of them. It is a different way to dress and we all are part of the same family 

But this forum would be a forum only for guys in masculine heels. Anyone could post if the rule is respected: men attires plus heels! 

Men in skirts could have their own forum. What they probably don't need. They have already overcome our problems. 

Thank you. But not enough for editing such guidelines. 

We need slightly  more guys here who are interested in writing posts on that subject. 

Just wondering: if HH4 men is not receiving enough visits,why not a special forum here? 

If some here think it could help,so we can go ahead 

we need someone,not me because of my poor English,for writing some guidelines. 

And a " moderator" or a " man style with heels fashion gourou" who is able to delete any deviant style. 

Pierre 

I agree! 

Maybe it worth trying? 

Right! 

For me this woman is dressed exactly as I wished to be. Without that blue,white,red thing! 

Possibly sadly ,you are right 

Hello everybody. 

A recurrence here is : how could I explain my GF or my wife( or simply my partner) that I am a man ,with no wish being a CD or whoever with similar tastes? 

Often the question is: should I show this site to my partner. And the answer is NO! Why? Because on the site we have so many different styles.Some with only female clothes,some with a mix,some painted toes nails. and more. That's ok for us. But not for a woman we want to show that we are not unique and a real man. 

Can't we find a possibility to have a separate forum,with no possibility to have access to the whole site that we could show to a woman who is wondering about if her man is still a normal man or moving to the side she can't accept. 

Please consider my proposal only as a help to the issues so many guys here are facing.

What about HH4men? 

@Tech what do you think ? 

If it is an acceptable option,we will need someone who ( moderator?) is able to decide what is " man" and what isn't! 

As You ,Tech does here for the general site 

Pierre 

She looks perfect. And so perfect that she often gets severe criticisms about her too sexy look for a politician. 

I am not a great fan of her as a polician. I just like how she is bold enough and show her " i don't give a shit" to what people could think. 

Here is a pic I found in a French magazine. 

She is a former justice minister when Sarkozy was President 

She now wants to be mayor of Paris. 

She seems more powerful than many men I know. Why is she allowed to dress that way and not us???

Hello @Jura! 

Its a special order I did to Extreme high heels in Spain. 

At first,thank you for that English lesson that I have found interesting. As a French native you can imagine that I am often struggling with your language 

Then,be sure that the French offers exactly the same possibilities,difficulties,and not so many French natives fell at ease with.

So ,please don't blame these bloody foreigners who are not responsible of these difficulties .You took from the foreign languages what it has  seemed  confortable to take  ..And we did and are still doing the same.

Sorry for my very average English .I am working hard to improve it. Honestly said I am more at ease with 5"heels .But that's a different story  

Pierre 

Peter Chu is producing the most arched shoes.

Italian heels in Italie,Fuss shoes in Germany,Extreme high heels in Spain have very nice 6" shoes. Confortable And ! walkable  

Oxfords

pumps

And could she feel bad ,walking on your side if you ,wearing  3/4" heels are much taller than her ?

Some thoughts : 

It took me several years before I was sure that my heel passion had nothing weird but jut something unusual 

Some more years before I was bold enough to wear them publicly. And even at present only block heels if visible. 

Never any other outfits that could be considered as feminine. At home,yes,sometimes for matching the heels. But more in the quest of trying new matches 

So it could take some times for your wife to follow the same track and reach the point she is ok with your heel wearing 

Probably she personally  is ok with your heels but she knows that other people you could meet would think you are a weirdo and she feels uncomfortable with it. 

So heels at home or you alone outside seems to be an acceptable goal you could reach 

Showing her the site could be a way to tell her you are not the only straight guy  who loves heels 

But she will for sure also find some others with skirts and more. Then she will undoubtedly think you are just at the first step of your coming  out. Dangerous ! 

Keep all skinny jeans,skirts and any more or less feminine clothes well hidden. 

You are right: carefulness  is the key word now and time as well 

These boots look very " normal" ..That means your wife don't accept men in heels at all.So,yes ,a serious conversation is needed.Maybe more than one  I would be surprised that she would change her mind within a few minutes  

i am sorry not to have followed your heeling stories better: does she  knew about your heel passion? 

Is it the first time you tried to wear heels with her? 

Sounds we all are more or less suffering from some parts of our bodies. 

@pebblesf,thank you for your nice words. And don't tell your doctor about your heeling. I always wear flats when I visit mine. 

If not,no matter he is right or not,he would get crazy 

Pierre 

I also had a toe nail surgery for a similar reason  when I was a kid. The doctor removed the nail totally. Non only it has been painful,the nail grew the same way after having been removed. So: pain for nothing.

Simce that day I cut it by myself regularly and don't have any problem anymore. 

Concerning hips and back pain( same origin),it is my everyday concern for now 40 years. Looking at my X Ray pictures is appaling. 

But with the help of a nice chiropractor/ Doctor ( he is both) my life is more than acceptable. For more than 20 years now. 

I never told him about my frequent heels wearing 

from my side I can't feel any difference if I wear heels,even several days in a raw,or flat. 

As I am also getting a little older than I would wish,I decided a few weeks ago to start some stretching exercises. Some very gentle ones. 

The result was a catastrophe! I had to rush to my gentle Doctor who asked me what the hell I could have done ! 

Now it is fixed again and I am trying to get old as slowly as possible. 

So: beware of any exercise your body isn't used to. 

So far,no idea. I was putting theses leggings on before taking my bike. I suddenly wondered what it could look like with these shoes. 

I don't feel like walking  publicy dressed that way . Too much for me. 

Ok with skinny jeans and block heels,even very high. But not these shoes. Not ready yet. 

Pierre 

Thank you @pebblesf! 

Baggy logo. That's why I had a mixed feeling. Your opinion is very useful 

What do you think about mixing sporty outfits and heels? 

Personnelly a mixed feeling 

Pierre

Wonderful legs!!!