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  1. It all depends who is labeling you as such. We all know it's ignorance from ridiculous beliefs. Often the word gay is meant to sound to demean or lash out at someone for many reasons and disrespecting with prejudice  a minority in society. Little do these people who label or ask the question know what they are doing. 

    My belief is when people label is a way to put these fears to rest.  Of the unknown or peculiar style of  footwear is bringing people to understand why? 

    Enjoy overhearing voiced opinions about my style from particular people.  Now i just get labeled as WEIRD. Find it amusing only because of my unusual style for my gender. Sometimes it just makes me laugh at seriousness females in particular study my style. Then conclude he is wearing woman such and such... Just get a kick out of there conclusions, thinking to myself, SO WHAT! WHAT's THE F#** Harm am i doing? If it's funny to them so be it. Yet i just see a confused stare or salty expression or the word WEIRD voiced. 

    Ask myself do i wear it better then them? If the answer is easily YES then smile or smirk  often is expressed by me never caring what they say or think. Supporting a stereotype any way to get my attention, by putting labels on me are rejected. The World is a big place with a lot of diverse people why waste time on some complainers or dimwit that can't mind their business or taunt to get a bark from me, while i ignore them as they don't exist. Living my life with my rules not some societies norms that they need to keep.

  2. Purchasing the sole in black will match the heel tips, seen some youtube videos of heels bought and they send extra pair of heel tips in tan colour. Wonder if you ask them to send black tips it can be easily swapped while still having a tan sole colour. Find only red sole looks good but we all know brand that is exclusive to.

    The shaft needs to be center of your footbed heel in order to be more comfortable. You can clearly notice on my previous last two pictures in above reply that thicker stiletto shaft is angled inwards while thin shaft is at the very end vertical passing your foot heel. Also notice the angle of the footbed maybe  too steep? Only wearing them will you notice if only your heel and front toes make contact on the footbed of the shoe. This slope can make wearing the heels very uncomfortable and unsteady to walk around. Your entire foot needs to contour the shoe not just the ends of your feet. 

    There is a lot to think about before purchasing such heels. Do like the nappa leather materials also wish they had lacquered coloured shaft heel, rather patent leather  covered ones or nappa.  

    Convinced myself out of purchasing these heels from Shoes of Prey although nothing is perfect. Will wait until some designer brands may come up at discounted price somewhere Like Jimmy Choo Anouk or others. Notice the higher heel and thin shaft makes more sexier looking stiletto. If i'm going to be wearing uncomfortable heels out on the street i better be in some designer ones that everyone will notice and recognize rather average poorly thought out attempt of quality material heels. Might as well buy Charles David, sam edelmen, nine west or PU pleasers.  If woman are staring at my heels thinking why on earth is he wearing such thin high stilettos shopping?  Woman better notice the quality envying the style, observing my comfortable stride, rather critiquing  finding the thick heel ugly or odd, tip colour wrong, assuming there Charles David with black sole or sub parr faux Steve Madden or Michael Kors brand. Ladies pitting me comparing  themselves thinking they got prettier heels at home. 

    At first glance every heel looks similar if someone doesn't stare long. At closer inspection woman who are intrigued may observe someone in heels longer to recognize the brand without bothering them.  Or they may compliment the heels subtly asking what brand they are so they can purchase the style themselves. 

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  3. They look great very fancy. Thicker heel angled inward makes for better foot placement and comfort. All the heels they sell are strait stiletto max out at 3.9” . While skinny stiletto heel Is not angled inward for proper position for heel for comfort compared to yours that angle slightly inward towards the sole underneath your heel footbed. Also your heel height much better then the ones they are selling. Maybe it’s the sizing heel gets larger.  Have problem with the tan heel tips. Most if not all designer heels have black heel tips no matter the colour of the sole. Tan sole does bring out the heel better. 

    Considering buying them torn about the thicker heel  and skinny stiletto option. 

    Looking at Fuss Sheshu in black Napa pump 9968 viteele Nero but not sure about the fit or sizing, width, comfort etc.. seen in first pic.

    which heel do you think looks better?

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  4. Glad to hear about your experience. To me it’s default belief that anyone paired up together in a line up will often then not react negatively towards a male in heel outfit. Often I talk myself out of wearing heels because of the conservative lame vibe at certain spots I may encounter. 

    Not to hijack your post I had pleasant experience in my public heel wearing outing.  Didn’t think much of it but knew people reacted usually walking alone passing me by. Suppose it was easiest experience I ever had walking in a mall with 4” block heel booties and skinny jeans. Woman noticed me to be sure, looking upon my skinny leggings jeans and booties. Although never heard bad comment onto me or any obvious negative expressions what they were seeing.  

    Had young female cashier express her compliments of my suede Moto jacket loving it as I walked up to the counter as I waited for few younger females ahead to checkout. They all noticed me to be sure but no negative reactions I could see. 

    One reaction I did notice is young attractive female was leaving the store as I stood looking through clothing rack’ my back towards her. As I kept turning around looking around the clothing rack noticing her pausing, in her stride observing me in disbelief. As I glanced over noticing we were basically wearing similar bootie heels different colours and pea coat and skinny jeans. In all due   respect I felt my outfit appeared better then hers. Later in the store found the same tan synthetic booties she was wearing. So I surmised her reaction to me was not only stunned surprise of male in some quality designer heel booties with effective outfit to match. Envy for sure was on her mind. Almost appeared the woman wanted to comment about my outfit but had nobody to tell it to so she just kept walking out the store door. 

     

     

     

  5. On July 13, 2016 at 4:34 PM, pebblesf said:

    I remember punishing myself the same way....My life would be complete if I could help just one poor guy from wasting years away with self punishment like I did....

    The fact of the matter is that many guys have a secret desire to wear women's clothing....This does not mean you are gay, or a freak, or anything like that.  Please trust us when we tell you that.  Please take advantage of all the like minded guys you will find here, hopefully we can help you get over your unfounded fears. 

    Again, the truth is that many guys have a thing for women's clothing of one sort or another.  Most keep this as a secret desire and never act on it.  Many guys have real nice figures and look amazing in fem gear.  Times are changing, hopefully we can break down some of society's silly stereotypes. 

    Please stay in touch with us and let us know how you are doing...Don

    Have to agree with regret about not starting younger. Older we get another fear creeps in our mind, logical or not. Older i become the more disgusted feelings about my body's appearance. Knit picking flaws upon my body being depressed and doubting to wear certain clothes. 

    Had a conversation with a rare like minded older 60 year old woman who adores my style and body. She feels wearing sexy clothes is not an option at her age. She believed when at a young age, why do old wrinkled old woman try to look attractive in trendy clothes showing off their body. Nobody finds her attractive it's silly to try to compete with young girls with smoother soft skin. While she has her moments saying fu@k it! i'm wearing my short spandex shorts with knee high strap sandals to the grocery store. Then had a woman stop her saying she looks amazing complimenting her style bringing a big smile to her face.

    So it's not just me that have doubts but older woman who can't let go of the years of sexy form fitting clothing and various heels stored in their closet. 

     

     

    Being bold enough wearing woman's clothes and comfortable in them. Tendency to second guess myself that older male can't look good as i might of at a younger age.

    Rarely does a woman laugh upon my appearance. Although do get cat whistled upon by group of young girls noticing me passing them by. Or overhear discussions from woman that shockingly suddenly find me buff, but find very similar appearance to a female which tends to turn them off.

    Suppose dissonance is what females  feel about me, but usual stereotypical judgemental opinions talk themselves out of admiring me to another. The first impressions two females had of me was wow look at him. Then their belief systems kick into gear saying he looks to much like a woman no point lusting after him or compliment his appearance because it's totally wrong for a man to appear as a female no matter how well he may or may not pull it off. Wearing my denim cutoff faded distressed short shorts and toned tanned smooth legs gave these woman difficulty to ignore what they see. After i overheard their criticism i gave both a look over from their backside. To be kind i found their figures needed a lot of work to be considered decent. So my conclusion was one found me stunning while the other concluded i was to feminine appearing  thus a bit of jealousy and envy creeping in.  Better to not associate with me and put some stereotypical labels upon what they see to make them feel better of their appearance.

    Good quote from P!nk

    And people like to laugh at you cause they are all the same, mmm

    So individual can be unique but vast amount in society  will find him or her silly to their own personal beliefs. 

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