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ive seen lots of this pair of boots round our town. I think its excellent for goth attire, and would suupplement well for man or woman

i agree with you on that Jay. the female trousers can go with the boots very well. even the unflaed bootcut trousers fit superbly over heeled shoes or boots. mens trousers are either too short or too baggy for the job

well done chris i started off very similar to you. a quick break but dive in the car when someone appeared, so i know how it feels, but it is good to take those first steps. i hope you can find time for many more the boots look great by the way daz

i think most are the same. both me and jade have a right foot almost half a size bigger than the left

from me too. i enjoyed your stories daz

i would too itd be nice to integrate into my normal lifestyle, work etc without having to seperate times i wear different shoes, and be careful who sees

the second pair(heel back) i prefer. I think it looks slicker. Also when walking the heel feels higher, because it actually is, because it is forced through a longer pivot of the ankle than when it is further forward. i have 2 pairs of stiletto boots. one with the heels back, one middle style. the ones at the back feel higher to walk in

the radio DJ's are very stereotypical people. It makes me sick sometimes

perhaps you could give us some suggestions jeff (based maybe on your own experiences) how you developed your own self confidence. I am confident some days, but others i darent go through the door, and im sure there are plenty the same

well done to allu too. its a good feeling isnt it

why not as long as im first in the queue

not a problem

not anytime soon the branch is the same distance in the opposite direction (about 4 miles) so travel is the same. the new wealth will contribute to my saving for my new Golf that im after daz

true....lol,. but this is a change of role, from bank cashier/skivvy role to Personal Banking Advisor (where you are one 2 one with people doing loans, mortgages etc) Luckily the bank does time+half for overtime tho. Ive been competing with two others trained with me, and was chuffed they selected me first. Re PC World, im not packing it in as it is like a hobby rather than another job. I enjoy stripping computers (and smashing waste bits in the back yard ) Re heelmeets, i can always request holidays John thx for the positive support from every1. Its like anything when youre happy, you just wanna tell everyone

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Im really happy today. It was announced that i have gained promotion in the bank It means moving to another branch, but it will be worth it daz

it works both ways i think. for me heels make me taller, i like the lift and change in my posture, i enjoy the stamping sound when i walk and these aspects make me feel much more confident (which you could class in dominant) on the other hand i sometimes get a little embarrased. When in shyer mode the thought of me a bloke in womens shoes doesnt make me feel overly masculine/dominant for the view of others. Also when ive worn my 5.5in stilettos out a few times i found myself holding onto jade a bit so you could also say the restriction can make you submissive. it has been brought up before whether heels themselves should be dom/sub, to which 2 sides exist again. Eg used in for example a dominatrix scenario, the heels are dominant, whereas someone struggling in higher heels than they can cope are controlled and restricted in movement by the heels therefore making them submissive items.

dandydude i read your post and i think you made a good job of summing up how my impression of all this was. As for Becky, it appears that she simply looks here to pick an argument with people, sporting facts and rules that she evidently knows nothing about, and adds a lot of insulting comments which to lots of people are a good knife in the back. I would certainly not be grovelling to such a person as you to stay here. I do hope the moderators have something to say about what was posted above. How can anyone have the cheek to post that heelwearing men are TV/CD and not real men, on a site that plays a big part in promoting the normality of men wearing heels as a fashion for men.

interesting replies. mostly they seem as you said, its ok i suppose. the people there may not wer that style themselves so may not like it. as one girl said the sq toes look masculine wven with a heel. pleasing to read that page, especially after the elle forums. hardly any negatives dz

wise idea jade isnt bothered of my heels. she says they suit me, but has never been visually/sexually attracted to heels in any way. they are just shoes and she finds nothing fascinating about them. im lucky she lets me wear what heels i want. i thought id never find anyone who would understand, but this board shows alone there are plenty of women who have no trouble with it. daz

this is an excellent thread, and really personalises the board. Makes you feel like you know the people better who are posting. I also like the lastest addition from white 6in spike heels, that pic is amazing in his shorts. If someone had mentioned a man in shorts and white platform heels id probably have pictured it as a bit over the top, but after looking at the pictures, it looks amazingly natural in a different way. well done lad!

what an awesome height. must be like standing on lamp-posts with your head through the clouds. lol

who said i came to argue

ditto dressboots. i dont think that clothing has any direct link to sexuality. It is no reflection of the person underneath.

my quibble with all this is that we are supposed to be a group of people sharing the same interest. This says womens fashion topics, not area for only women to post on. I think all this is rather petty and is just going to end up seperating us all. All the talk of invading, well im not so sure. We dont all come to post here with bad intentions, and i wouldnt complain if lots of females were giving opinions on the guys topics. Plus i cant say i remember that many opinions from our female members in the guys section, so its only natural that people will join in topics here to get opinions from females. I think if the girls dont want us to post on a topic, and have started something they just wanna discuss with the other members, they could just start the post with 'Just for the Girls' or something similar. ill probably get slated for this post but thats my view on it. Daz