conor1974

Hi all, Just wanted to share another positive experience from today, Well i'm definitely becoming more comfortable with this, and hopefully other readers will take comfort and confidence from my posting. Visited a store called 'Burlington Coat Factory' in Albany today, which has a great selection of very high heels!. I bought a pair of black 5.5 inch slingback closed toe, platform pumps. I tried them on right in the store and the female sales associate, stopped over with a smile and told me they looked great on me!. I paid for the shoes and immediately took my boots off and put them on. I walked right through the shopping mall to my car. I got lots of looks and even lots of smiles. One older woman complimented me, and asked where I bought my heels as they looked fabulous. I honestly felt so uplifted, and happy that i'm gradually and slowly able to be this true to myself. For anyone reading this that feels 'on the edge', take that extra step when you can, you might really enjoy it! Conor:smile:

Thanks so much to everyone who has replied to my posts, I really appreciate the words of advice and helps me to feel at home here!

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Well there is an update, Last night , my wife and I decided to make love and I felt that this was the time, to go for 'the heels'. I asked her again, to solidly define her previous approval, she did say that for me to wear heels was a wierd request. I asked her if it would 'turn her off', she said 'no , go ahead'. So i put on her pink, 3 inch pumps, not the sexiest shoe ever, but a start at least. After we finshed I took them off right away, i guess i felt a little awkward because i didnt like what i was wearing, i would much rather have been in my six inch black pumps and maybe some thigh highs, but that's gonna be a long way down the road. I also did not want to make her feel awkward, god knows what shes really thinking at this point! So this morning I have woke up feeling quite adventurous and feel like a little public fun. I am so going to take baby steps here. I am just going to go to a minimart and pick up a coffee. I have decided to wear jeans and a jacket but with a pink sweater on underneath. i am wearing thigh highs and have decided to go with a pair of my wife's low 3 inch black pumps. By looking at my shoes you would see i'm wearing nylons but not so high in the heel that i would be overly conspicuous. No doubt I'll have to sit in my car for ten minutes before i get the courage to go in, but I'm going to try hard, because i know that every little adventure like this that is successful, i can move on to bigger and better things. I'll let you all know how it goes, Conor '

Hi there, And welcome!, Im new here too , so just giving you my inexperienced thinking! I dont think youre mad, just incredibly brave, but as your going to be with someone else, that should ease concerns that any on-lookers may have. Just one suggestion, bring one pair of easy to slip on guys shoes, just in case the cops are stopping cars, or you get a ticket. They can be funny when it comes to this. But, good on you and I hope you have a great trip.!! Please let us know how it goes for you. Conor

Hi all, How liberating it is to start my own thread on here. I'm a 36yr old male, married with a high heel fetish from Albany NY. A little about me...Ive always loved seeing women walking in skirts and high heels, i commonly park outside upscale department stores watching them come in and out. This all started about 2 years ago, I decided one day to try on a pair of my wife' heels and enjoyed it so much that everything took off from there. Now, my wife doesn't generally wear heels and most of what she owns, i bought for her. I was wearing them so much that they actually started to wear, so I had to start buying my own. I now have 12 pairs myself!. I wear very high heels, the lowest i have is a 4 inch pump stiletto, up to the largest being a 6.5 inch t-strap slingback. I will upload some pics as soon as i can! I am at the point now though, where enjoyment is now leading to frustration, where I feel i need to "come out" with my fetish and live as free as possible with this. Up to now I have been generally wearing them around the house, I have worn them while driving at night, and have pumped gas in them three times, which has been great. I would dearly love to wear them out on the street in public , but I just don't have the courage yet, I hope I will get that soon, and possibly with the help of the members on here. It seems to me that I would have to dress from head to toe as a female to pull that off, which is difficult, as I have tried that but i just don't have the features of a woman. However I feel that this weekend I made a little progress, I was in bed with my wife, and during sex I asked her if next time I could wear heels? We didnt stop, but she gasped " oh my god, your gay!!", i said no, its just a fetish, she was in disbelief for a few seconds, but then said sure, if you want to. So that brings me to a precipice now, Im going away on a trip thursday, so wednesday night, we should be at that point, and now i dont know what I should do. Walk into the room with a pair of my own on?, ask her again?, wear hers?, I don't know, but i look forward to sharing this with her, and hope it doesn't change her opinion of me. So feel free to share your views with me, help me if you can, I look forward to sharing my adventures on here with you, and hearing about your endeavours too. High Heels Forever! Conor