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I applaud you for having the confidence to be yourself at work, in spite of the negative reactions.  I truly believe many negative reactions/giggles/comments come from a place of jealousy.  Some women are insecure and feel threatened thinking that some guys might look better in traditional female fashions than they do.  And, I usually find guys that protest the loudest are usually the most insecure as well.  I truly believe that many guys have a secret desire to wear/look good in female fashions, most don't have the body and fashion sense to pull it off successfully though.  You obviously take good care of yourself and look great in female fashions.  I don't mind admitting I am jealous, but that is OK. 

Again, I applaud you for having the strength to be yourself in spite of public opinion.  Trust me, you look great buddy, and are a true inspiration for all of us here!  Don

Thank you Don, for your kind comments and honest opinions. 

Regards to the word jealousy reactions with negativity and haters  comes part of the process wearing anti-gender clothing i sort of agree.

In many cases if someone despises my clothes thinking it's plain wrong for a male to wear because of their own learnt behavior.  Do believe they are not jealous but find it odd to see a male wearing something seen for a female to be worn.   Thus their smirks finding it amusing because of their high sense of fashion awareness and observation towards everyone surrounding them. 

One good reason (not the only one) why i continue wearing female fashions is the few hypocrites speaking  negativity towards me while getting idea, wearing exactly the same clothes. Often it makes me laugh louder, amusing myself overhearing woman crying upon my lack of taste shaking their head. While planning in secret to buy exactly the same article of clothing as me, wearing it days later in my face as though i didn't realize what they are up too while their female friends are oblivious complimenting them about it.

Or the best is being disrespected or shown by others that i'm a joke in public wearing certain clothes. Yet whenever i'm alone one on one with females out from their peers that can observe they can't help looking upon my clothes closely. Often showing desires of the fabric or texture and color and style.

About your comment about my desire wearing women's attire and looking good. Most times i feel incomplete wearing the clothes because the style needs to be 100% feminized to work. Often i wear this or that but completes it with masculine touch which makes it lose it's style not looking right.

Like many here concur can't wear leggings or jeggings with masculine shoes often it doesn't dress up the style. You got to wear either a high heel pump, bootie heel or knee high boots. Sometimes this is our brains getting accustomed to see certain items accessorized with certain trends and style to work. 

Often i'm so frustrated wanting to wear this or that but because of circumstance can't do it. Be it can't find a size or just unacceptable manner of clothes to wear be it the venue or location such as the workplace. At the same time frustrated envious seeing it worn on some woman knowing i can look much better in it.