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Shafted

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  1. Look, I'm going to say this because it looks like nobody else will.

     

    The very fact that you went to a sex therapist states that you, yourself do not accept yourself in high heels. With this in mind, how can you expect anyone else to accept you in high heels.

     

    I'm assuming that you are from Quebec. I can tell you that from my geographical location, I am exposed to a great deal of people from Quebec passing through my area on their way to other destinations. They are no different from the people who are all around me (except that they dress themselves way better). They have seen me wearing high heels often and they barely even blink in surprise.

     

    The key is confidence. If you are in any way uncomfortable with your appearance in high heels it will show. It will show as a weakness. If you can't wear high heels with confidence then don't wear them. You are not cut out for them.

     

    If it is strictly a fetish for you then you may have other issues. To be honest, I suspect that for many men here, heel wearing started out as a fetish. Then they made the decision to incorporate it into their personal style. The fetish aspect then becomes secondary to non-existent.

     

    Why are you jealous of women? You have the exact same power to do exactly what they do. They didn't have it easy either, so why do you expect it to be easy for you?

     

    Sorry to be so blunt, but it's an old story I've heard way too many times.

  2. Yesterday in Pittsfield, I was coming out of Dysart's with my lunch when I heard a thumping on the window of an SUV. I turned to see a young woman pointing at my shoes (my Gabriella Rocha snakeskin stiletto pumps) and giving me a big smile and two thumbs up.

     

    I turned to her and smiled back.

     

    I was wearing them with light gray kneehighs and my American Eagle skinny jeans with my charcoal gray cable knit oversize sweater.

  3. One I can think of is Kilted to Kick Cancer. Men wear kilts for prostate and testicular cancer awareness. It's not widely publicized but it's growing.

    That's great! But, is there participation by women at these events?

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