Addicted2HHs

Hi Rob,

She mostly objects to my wearing womens shoes. I how ever like the feel of womans shoes and specifically the stilletos. They fit better as i have a narrow foot.

I like the feeling of heels, of course, and maybe you are right. I will look at the mens high heels.

Thanks for the link.

Addicted2HH, How tall is your wife? that maybe something to do with it especially if she is of average height. At 6'5" you ain't a shorty by any factor.

Al

Hi Alsheels,

She is rather short, about 5'5".

This means i stand more than e head above her except when she is wearing heels.

This also adds to her grumpyness when it comes to wearing heels. But mainly due to it being womans shoes.

A long long time ago in a house far far away, i was dressed up by my sister and a friend who at that stage were larger than myself. They were also 3 years older than myself. The dress up included a pr of mothers 4" heels. I must have enjoyed it, because i tested all her heels during the next 6 months to a year. Then my feet could not be forced into the shoes with a crowbar any more. The pleasure was not to come arround for another 19 years, as my feet grew to a USA 15 ladies size. Finally got a pr of 13 USA ladies sandles with 4" heels.. Showed my wife and nearly got killed for the trouble. Had to destroy them then. Broke my heart, but saved my marridge. 2008 searched the internet for large sized female shoes, and struck gold. Bought a pr of 5" pleaser pumps in size 15 USA. had them for about a year before i decided to come clean to my wife. The same one still. Nearly got killed again. I am unfortuanately not a good diplomat and just came out in the shoes from our room into the lounge, saying: how do like these shoes! It took 3 months to patch up the hole left by the explosion of that night. She still does not agree with my sentiment of men wearing heels if they want to, but she just ignores the fact that i wear them arround the house. I do get a mouth full every now and so often when i inform her that i want a new pr. She always reminds me that i am wasting money, as i cannot wear them when we go out. She will not accompany me, and at 6'11" in 5 inch heels, i cant blame her. Last i have to mention is that i now own = knee highs, thigh highs, ankle, and oxfords (3 to 5"). I also have 3 prs of pumps in red, black, & hot pink (4"). as well as 3" pumps black and 5" pumps white, the sandle in the avatar & brown clogs 4". My collection is still growing if somewhat slowly these days. And that ladies and gents concludes my story. PS: I do not plan on stopping again as my kids left the house more than 8 years ago and now reside overseas. They still do not know and to save the wife the embarrassment of explaining how she can still live with and love me i do not plan in telling them. Mabe i will leave an equal no of prs to my 2 sons in law. That will cause a upheaval at the reading of my last will and testament. HA HA

Hi HHMania, Glad to hear from another HH lover in RSA. May I ask where you are from. We are few and far between in RSA Please think about joining our small but growing group of SA heelers. We would love to have you on board. Welcome once again.

All. I have a slight problem with only the 3 anwswers. Most people agree that they do not want to go in public with HHs, as most people stare. (The country also plays a big role) How about HHs in mens fashion, even if they are realy ugly and only come in black and brown, until nobody bothers looking at men in HHs. Then we can all wear heels of all colors and forget the idea of manly or feminine. Personaly I prefer the more pointed look of the stilettos. I bought 3 prs of mens shoes from a Shoes.com. The brand was Stacy Adams, and Giorgio Brutini, Atleast they did not only have the chopped of look that most mens shoes have these days. They have more of a pointed look, similar to heels. They are so comfortable. I just miss the heel feel. Someone mentioned a reason for woman wearing HHs, as being: to look taller, and thus in certain cases more slender. Doesn't that also go for men. Unfortunately I have the oposite problem. I am 2m or 6'6". Wish I were 6" shorter, and had smaller feet. I wear a "womens" size 15 or 16. This tends to make me stand out to the point that nobody will not notice me. Someday men will again wear heels as in the time of Napoleon, before the ladies stole the pleasure for themselves. Keep on heeling, even it is just at home.

You look great in the boots and i love you in the second outfit. You look stunning.

Hi loveheel. I suppose it depends where you are going. All the outfits are great, and the heels are fantastic, but the shorter denim skirt makes sitting decently difficult. Although it looks cool. I agree with hhboots, you will look good in most outfits.

Hi partsgod, welcome. Great having you. Tell us a bit about yourself. Your likes and disslikes etc.

Hi Pumplove. Pray for your safe return home. I think you are going to flip your lid when you put on heels for the first time after a year. Keep this positive thought in mind the whole time. I am sure it will help keep your spirit up. Be careful and allert! Good luck.

Hi there. You must have the most fantastic relationship. Tell your husband he must give you a hug and a kiss, he is indeed a fortunate man. Enjoy heeling together, and your love for heels.

Hi CRabbit. Welcome to our Home away from Home. I decided after 6months of heeling in secret to tell my wife of 35 years of my new enjoyment. I could never find shoes to fit in South Africa, Finaly the internet. I thought i would have some opposition, But it nearly led to devorce. I handled it like a twit by appearing in front of her one evening wearing 5" stilettos. 1 year a lot of love lots of squabbles, more fights, More love lots of TLC more attention etc, and i was told that i could wear them when i give her a massage or foot rub etc. Tit for tat I believe it is called. I also had to promise that the children that live in Scotland and New zealand, the family the maid none of the neighbours etc may ever know, and now I may wear them in the house or when I am driving.(That is always a rush as she can't drive in heels) She basically still does not really like it but realised that it won't effect our relationship, and I love heeling. What I am saying is take it realy slow. Have patience and in time the most unlikely things may come true. Untill then, enjoy what you have and specially the love of your family.

Hi woutie. Glad to have you onboard. Sure you will feel right at home. Tel us a little more about youself - Shoe likes , dislikes etc. Your choice of name I find interesting. "Praat jy Afrikaans" Greetings and welcome again.

My reply - NO. I actualy want to cry when people with a no 9 or 10 English complain. Try finding size 13 English. That is a bummer. You are totaly robbed of any new fashion until they are completely out of fashion. The positive - at least PLEASERs thought of us.

Some day!

Would I stop wearing heels. Life would be less complicated in many ways, but oh so boring. No! I will never give it up. It makes me feel alive.

Stillettos all the way. I,m very comfortable in 4 &4½". but have some 5" and even a 6" pair. Don't know how the 3" will feel, never tried them. Maybe I should. The cuban heel will be much easier to go public in. Now you know, I havn't worn them in public yet.

Hi morgan. I also stumbled on my heels and fell in the door instead of walking in. Welcome to the HHP family. Keep on smiling.

Hi April. Welcome and hope to hear a lot more from you.

Hi there Nadette, and welcome. Wish my wife would not take off her heels as soon as she gets home. But then again, she says one in heels is enough. I put mine on as soon as I get home. I believe you already feel @ home. Hope this isn't bad manners, but I want to say : IBL 70 Your heels in your avatar rock me. Jay Jay you are one very lucky Bug--r. I am still working on Skirts but the wife gives me grief. Some day !

Welcome dougmac. I am sure you are going to feel right @ home. I hope you can do something about the weather in your lovely country. Myself and wife are visiting our daughter and family in Aberdeen area for Christmas, and I do not want to freeze my ----- off. Will wearing nylons help any?

Hi geo t. I support you 100%. I have the same problem, except worse. I wear Usa size 15. Have sofar only been able to buy online from the Pleaser line. Even that has been horribly expensive. Out currency is rather weak and the shipping and inport charges are staggering. BUT- I will persevere.

Hi Mark and welcome. I'm sure you will feel right at home. Tell us more about yourself.

Hi Foxyheels. You are a lucku Bug---. Wish my feet were small enough to find shoes in any shop. I also think you are a very lucky man where your wife is concerned. Enjoy every minute of it. I'm drewling with jealousy.

As of late, I have been having these feelings like I want to wear high heels. I know my wife will never approve of it, and I don't want it to become an issue where it breaks up my family. I have three children, and would never want to be separated from them.

Just not sure what to do. My wife has caught me in her clothes before, and that nearly ended our marriage.

Hi Tigger. welcome to the club. I told my story a short time ago, and i simpathise with your situation. I only came out in front of my wife a couple of months ago. I fully agree with Bubba. You will never get rid of the feeling you are having now. Mine lasted 45 years, and i finaly had to give in. I wil not give advice on what to do, But believe me, when you finally come out, the feeling of relief is incredible.

What i can say is do not wear her clothes. They normally hate to share their clothing. Rather go and buy your own.

PLease keep on writing, we would love to hear any news from you and may it all be good news.

I'm sure every body here @ HHP supports you.

Hi jim 102. Welcome to high heel place. I am sure you will feel right at home. I order all my shoes from USA, and do agree that a nice pair of court shoes will not easily be out done for style and eligance. Keep on walking. Welcome once again.

Hi foxinheels88. Welcome. I have to agree with bubba. once you've worn them, and enjoyed the the feeling, there is no going back. The only to get the hang of it, is to where them as often as possible, and walk as much as possible. Enjoy man enjoy. The women kept the secret of the pleasure of wearing heels for to long.